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Maid of Honor Speech Examples for the Sister of the Bride

Show your sister she chose the best possible maid of honor with a sentimental and sweet speech on her big day.

Maid of honor speeches for sisters honor the bride while also honoring the important relationship between sisters. Writing and presenting a maid of honor speech as a sister of the bride is a big deal, but with these speech ideas for sisters, you'll feel confident as you step up to the mic. Show your sister she made the best choice in her maid of honor with a sentimental and sweet speech on her big day.

How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech for Your Sister

What a huge honor to toast your sister on her wedding day as the leading lady in her wedding party. You're responsible for a lot of things on her big day, and your speech will be heard by close friends and family of both the bride and groom. Don't stress over your speech though, you can choose from a wide range of sample speeches and edit them to reflect your personality and the bond you and your sister have.

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Print any of the following speeches by clicking on the speech images, opening them with Adobe Reader , and filling in the details so that they apply more specifically to your sister and the special relationship you share. Details are added at the appropriate places indicated by the brackets and suggested information.

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Maid of Honor Speech From a Little Sister

In the sample speech below, you'll find a template perfect for a younger sister filling the maid of honor role. This maid of honor speech for a big sister is perfect for you if you always looked up to her as a role model or if she felt you were a bit of a tag along when little. Share all the ways you tried to be just like her - from stealing her clothes to copying her haircuts. You could even adapt it to include one of your favorite nicknames for your sister .

This sample was written by Kathleen Esposito.

Your Sister's "Prince Charming"

The sample speech below offers the opportunity for the maid of honor to share her sister's earliest thoughts about the man she would eventually marry - no matter how funny or silly they seem now. For example, some of the desirable traits she may have wanted when she dreamt of him at age 15 might be that he has a driver's license, a job at the pizza parlor, be blonde, and play soccer. Share those details and how they compare to their relationship today and all the things she truly loves about her groom, even if his soccer days are long gone. This speech allows your special bond to show through and pokes a little fun at the bride without going overboard.

Kathleen Esposito wrote this sample speech.

For Those With ''Strong Family Ties''

This speech is written from the perspective of a sister who has a strong bond with the bride. The speech discusses their upbringing, recalls a childhood story or two, and talks about how growing up with this sister is entirely unique. The spouse is casually mentioned and included as an integral part of the speech by welcoming them to the family and warning them of the chaos you often go through.

Danielle Reed is the author of this speech.

Based on a Quote

This sample speech is based on a quote from the Broadway hit Hamilton . You can choose a quote from your childhood, a quote about sisterhood, or a quote about love. No matter your choice, build a speech around the importance of this quote or the impact it's had in your sister's life. It is important to add a slight personal touch to the quote. Discuss why you chose it, what it means to you, and congratulate the couple on their marriage. With a few simple changes or this exact speech, it is easy to show your love for your sister.

Speech sample is by Danielle Reed.

Write the Perfect Sister Speech

While a fairly generic speech may work well for a friend, a speech for your sister as her maid of honor should celebrate your special bond. Construct your speech around your relationship and work outward from there. Follow these maid of honor speech tips for sisters to build a speech your sister will never forget.

Follow a Maid of Honor Speech Template

You're excited to give the speech and share all your favorite sister memories, but organizing your thoughts on paper feels intimidating if you aren't a seasoned speech writer. Follow this simple template to help you write a speech that conveys all the things you're feeling for your sister on her big day. Follow the five-point rule for your speech in this template to toast to the bride with all the wit and emotion you've been longing to express.

The five-point rule for a maid of honor speech is:

• A strong intro: this is your opportunity to start with a lighthearted joke or to simply greet the crowd, share your name, and your relation to the bride, as well as your place in the wedding party.
• A brief story: a personal story about your history with the bride helps the audience connect with you. Keep it short and simple and only choose a story the bride would like you to share.
• Relate the story to the present: bring the story full circle and relate it to the wedding couple today. If you loved to stay up late on Friday nights and watch movies as kids, give the green-light for the spouse to take over in this new chapter of life.
• Address the couple with advice: Give practical advice directly to the couple in your speech. This doesn't need to be profound. It can be as simple as advising the spouse to never set the thermostat too low at night or to always leave the last slice of pizza for your sister.
• Toast the couple: This is your big finish. Tell your sister how much you love her, wish her well in her new life, and invite the entire audience to toast the newlyweds with you.

Things to Include

Some ideas on things you can include are:

• Funny memories from early childhood, such as when she used to tag along with your friends, or vice versa.
• Ways that you look up to or aspire to be like your sister, past and present.
• Special nicknames that you used to call each other (keep it PG, of course).
• Secret things that you used to keep from your parents, such as staying up late talking on school nights.
• Early dating stories, and how you supported one another through love and heartbreak.
• How you knew she had finally found her special someone.

Additional Speech Tips

Finally, these general tips for making a maid of honor speech for your sister can help.

• Don't force yourself to be funny, sentimental, or formal if that's not your personality. Your sister wants to hear from the real you on her special day.
• Avoid embarrassing stories even if you think they're funny. You don't want to humiliate your sister in front of her friends and family.
• Focus should mostly be on your sister, the bride, as the best man speech will have covered many personal thoughts about the groom. However, be sure to mention him at some point, because without him, there wouldn't be a wedding!
• Avoid too much alcohol until after your speech is over. You don't want to slur your way through the toast.
• Raising your glass in a wedding toast for your sister and her spouse is a great way to end the speech. Be sure to have a glass, even if it is just water, ready to go.
• If you have a talent, like singing, writing poetry, or playing an instrument, you can always do this as part of your speech. Your sister will be honored if you sing her favorite love song or write an original poem in honor of her wedding day. Just be sure to okay this with the wedding couple first.

Honor Your Sister on Her Big Day

With the right personal touches, maid of honor speeches for a sister can be a heartwarming expression of love, support, and friendship. These speeches can be great wedding toasts in honor of the bride, and you can change them to suit your personality and create the perfect tribute to your sister and her new spouse. Practice ahead of time so that you can concentrate on your sister and not on your nerves.

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Write a great Maid of Honor speech for your sister

Step-by-step help, a maid of honor speech outline template to use, with a FREE printable and a heartfelt speech example

By:  Susan Dugdale  

Understandably, many women feel a little nervous about writing a maid of honor speech for their sister.

How do you sincerely share the happiness you feel for her in front of a crowd? 

And where do you begin? 

It's a big responsibility, but with enough time, (3-4 weeks, or more, to prepare and practice), the process is straightforward and stress-free. Truly.

What's on this page

How to start your maid of honor speech  for your sister.

How to brainstorm  ideas for the speech.

The five parts of the MOH speech template with examples.

• 1. The introduction
• 2. History with the bride

3. Life before the groom

4. the romance.

• 5. The conclusion

A FREE printable maid of honor speech outline  

Frequently asked questions : how long should a speech be...

More MOH resources : more speech examples, poems and readings...

How to start your maid of honor speech

Grab a piece of paper, a pen, or use digital app like Evernote and start with a brainstorming session to collect up the stories and ideas you think you might like to share.

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1. How to brainstorm 

The brainstorming process is simple. Jot down ideas about what you think you might want to touch on in your speech, just as I've done in the image below. 

Allow yourself complete freedom to explore as many potential topics as you can and, as much time as you need.

Recall fond memories. Remember shared experiences: the good times, the hard times and the funny times. Think about her best qualities: the ones you admire her for.

Do not edit or censor your words

Do not edit yourself! Put down whatever comes into your mind. Don't stop to worry about whether it's good, bad or appropriate. You'll review it later, and definitely don't stop to check your spelling.

You do not need to write full sentences or paragraphs, just notes. You want enough words to trigger your memory about what you thought would be a good idea to say and that's all.

Keep going until you can genuinely think of nothing more.

2. Pick the best material from your notes

Now pick the best of these ideas and organize them into the 5 sections of the speech template below. This will give what you say a logical structure: a clear beginning, middle and end.

Obviously, the tone: whether the speech is laugh-out-loud funny, wryly amusing, sentimental or heartfelt and sincere, is something you'll decide for yourself. That's governed by the stories and ideas you choose to share and the language you use to express them.

3. Read an example maid of honor speech for a sister

This example is based on the notes from the brainstorm image above. You'll see it is a blend of playful stories and genuine heartfelt sincerity.

The text of the speech is split into five parts: one for each of the required sections making up the template. As you scroll down the page you'll see it in the green call-out box under each section's explanatory notes.

Part 1. The introduction to your maid of honor sister speech

In the introduction it is customary to identify yourself because there may be guests who don't know you and don't know you are the bride's sister.

Next welcome the guests, thank them for coming, and thank your sister for the privilege of being her maid of honor.

(I've added a personal story to make an immediate connection with those listening and bring a smile! ☺)

1. Introduction

What a day, Mary!

Remember when we were kids, how we dressed up in Mom’s old party dresses? And how we used to put a white tablecloth on our heads and march around, singing, “Here comes the bride, fair fat and wide.”?

Good evening. My name is Jennifer, and this beautiful woman, this stunning bride: the opposite of “fair fat and wide”, is my beloved little sister.

As youngsters, we laughed ourselves silly over that game. Now here we are twenty-five years later.

Not laughing. Mary’s not wearing a tablecloth. And this time it’s for real.

It's a great honor to be asked to speak. Thank you.

Thank you too, to all of you, for coming to share this special day with us. Especially Frank’s family.

We know Mary adores you, almost as much as she does us. It’s wonderful seeing our families all together to celebrate this marriage.

Part 2. History with the bride

Share short stories from your childhood  to paint a picture of your relationship, highlighting different facets of her personality and your bond.

Whether you choose to write something funny, serious or sentimental, the most important thing is to be genuine.

2. History with the bride 

The pair of us, share thirty years' worth of loyalty and love: with an occasional sisterly quarrel thrown in. The usual sort of thing. Her snitching my favorite pair of jeans, without asking, and looking better in them, when we were 17 and 15 years old. A bit of phone snooping...Nothing major. Certainly nothing a bossy big sister couldn’t handle.

Before I left home, we shared a bedroom for a long time. That means you go through cycles of liking, loving and loathing each other. Sometimes all at once.

The jeans was definitely loathing.

The way she took my side over not eating Brussels sprouts was sisterly solidarity. Mary and I united against parental cruelty! Wonderful!

But what was truly excellent, was our bedtime stories: the ones we told each other. They were hilariously good fun. As soon as Mom turned off the light and closed the door, we’d pick up from where we left off the night before.

A favorite was the classic tale of a prince (handsome) arriving in the nick of time to rescue the beautiful damsel in distress, from some dastardly fellow, or a particularly nasty situation.

(We rejected stories about girls having a fabulous time up to their elbows in grease rebuilding a vintage car in the garage. We wanted lace, lots of it and happily ever after, down the aisle.)

In our stable of handsome princes, the handsomest prince of them all, the one we both swooned over was Darren. Darren was a super-superman created for us, by us. He was brave, brilliant, strong, just like Dad, and let us do whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted. (Not like Dad.)

Did he ever go out to work? Nah. Did he ever tell us we had to rescue ourselves? No chance.

Darren was always there. Always ready. Always had time and always, always knew what to do. Darren was masculine perfection.

I can’t remember the exact moment when this fine fellow left.

But I do know Frank had quite an act to follow.

Part 3. Life before the groom

This next section focuses on your sister's life and what she was doing before she met her new spouse.

For example, maybe she was busy focused on her career and never really gave enough time to finding a best friend and life-partner.

Or perhaps your sister was having a good time travelling the world when she found her match.

Or did she fall for her good friend, the person next door whom she's known since she was eight?

Stories and subjects to avoid

There are a couple of things to watch out for.

The first is to be mindful about sharing anything that could be embarrassing for either your sister, her new husband, or your family members and friends.

Past relationships, including previous marriages and divorces, are off limits, as is talking about challenges with drug, alcohol or gambling addictions, using 'adult' humor or sexual innuendo, or referring to marriage cynically or negatively.

In addition, please don't fall into the trap of sharing a tale or something about your sister that no one can relate to except for you and her. If you do that, you'll find yourself looking at puzzled faces.

Your goal is to bring the guests together, to have them join you in celebrating the happy couple and their love for each other. To ensure you do that avoid topics that could potentially upset and alienate those listening.  

When my sister dreams, she dreams big, and then she makes it her business to have them come true.

High school was followed by college which was followed by the career she’s always wanted: to be an editor and read for a living. The pinnacle of bliss for a 'booky' girl! A job enabling her to bask in the afterglow of a successfully relocated sentence terminal: aka a period or full stop.

I’m proud of what she's achieved, how she balances her life, somehow making time for everything.  She's graceful, organized and appears, unrushed. (A trick I need to learn!) 

Mary’s a good person, a great friend and, my role model.

Then along came Frank. Was it true love at first sight?

Part 4. The romance

Next, transition to a paragraph about your sister and her husband. How did they meet? How has the groom changed your sister’s life?

You can talk about how inspiring their relationship is to you or share a humorous story involving your sister and new brother-in-law.

This part doesn’t have to be very long.  It's necessary because it brings your speech into the present. A good way to conclude this portion is by formally welcoming the groom into your family.

Did she swoon? Was she in a ghastly situation: a set of parentheses too many? And nowhere obvious to put them? You’ll have to ask her yourself.

What I’ve learned about Frank over the last six years...

(Yes, six years! And you all thought it was tough waiting for her to get to the church. 10 minutes. Diddly-squat, compared to what she put him through!)

What I’ve learned leaves us in no doubt he’s earned her hand in his.

This man loves books just as much as she does. Hard to believe, but it’s true. Both of them live by the wisdom: when in doubt go to the library. You’ll find the answer to everything there.

Some people do bar crawls. These guys do libraries. And book stores, and book rescues: tatty, out of print treasures from street stalls.

He’s kind. He’s thoughtful. He loves walking in the country side, chocolate, and his dog, a golden lab called Fido.

We think Fido was the clincher, with dark chocolate close behind. Plus, books, his ability to listen, to laugh...

In short, he knows how to be there for her, day after day, night after night, page after page, chapter after chapter.

Part 5. Conclusion

There are many possibilities for a conclusion. You could end with a quote, a joke, some spiritual advice, a toast or simply say, congratulations.

Do try to keep with the tone you’ve set in the rest of the speech and end with what feels most appropriate for your sister.

5. Conclusion

Darren? Pooh! He’s been well and truly replaced by the real and best thing. We couldn’t possibly imagine a better partner for her. They're a perfect match.

Ladies and gentleman please join me in congratulating Mary and her handsome prince Frank. May they continue to share their love story for many, many happy years.

Get a printable Maid of Honor speech outline

The printable outline will help you organize your speech. Follow the instructions to complete each of the template's five parts.

To get the printable either click on the image below or this link: maid of honor speech outline . (It opens in a new window.)

Questions frequently asked

As well as finding out how to craft their maid of honor speech, and reading a couple of examples, there are a number of frequently asked questions. These are:   

1.How long should the speech be?

Keep it between 3-6 minutes. That's approximately between 450-900 words.

There are going to be a number of speeches to fit into the reception schedule - e.g. best man, perhaps father/mother of the bride as well as the groom, and maybe a 'thank you' from the newlyweds.  'Short and sweet' doesn't upset the program of events because you've gone over time. It keeps everyone listening and happy.

The example speech is 859 words long. That will take approximately 5-6 minutes to deliver .

2.What's the best way to manage speech anxiety?

First of all, understand that being a little nervous before giving your speech is quite normal.

Yes, everyone will be looking at you. Yes, everybody will be listening. 

However, what you need to remember is you are the focus of their attention purely because you are giving this speech. It's the message you're sharing and how you are delivering it that's important. Not you. You are the conduit - the means of its delivery. 

Give yourself time

Beginning to prepare your speech well ahead of time will help. Working under pressure adds to anxiety. Please don't let yourself to procrastinate! That will only result in more stress.

Aim to have your speech prepared and ready for practicing 3-4 weeks ahead. Getting the words down you want to say is part of the process. Practice completes it.

Saying it out loud is the only way you'll discover if  it flows naturally from one point to the next, or if it's too long and needs adjusting.

And practicing in front of trusted others will prepare you for the event itself. You'll already have experienced what it feels like to have people watching and listening to you. You'll know how they respond - which bits to slow down on, which parts will make them laugh, or shed a tear...

If you think about your speech as a gift, primarily for your sister, but also for your family and friends you'll want to make it something precious and valued. Doing that well takes time. Please don't skimp on it.

3. What's the best way to handle emotion?

How do you stay cool calm and collected while giving a deeply felt speech?

Given the event and its importance, it's natural to feel emotional.

Repeated practice will help you manage those feelings because you'll know the places in your speech where they are most likely to occur. When, and if they do, pause. Take a deep breath. Breathe out. Take another breath in and continue. See how to rehearse  for more.

Additional MOH speech resources to help

I have other pages you may find useful. For instance:

• Maid of honor speech examples . Explore different styles to find inspiration.

•  How to end a Maid of Honor speech : 20 examples .  Choose the perfect closing.
• Wedding poems and readings . Add a special touch with a well-chosen poem or reading.
• Writing a bridesmaid speech . Craft a speech if you have a different role.
• General speech preparation . Perfect if you’ve never prepared a speech before.
• How to practice your speech . Deliver your speech confidently and professionally. Practice is key to making it extra special for everyone.

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How to Write Maid of Honor Speech for Sister (With Examples)

• by Marisa Jenkins
• January 5, 2024

Being a maid of honor comes with a lot of duties and responsibilities; you have to help the bride with many aspects of wedding planning. However, it is also extremely rewarding; you get to be with the bride on her most special day—you might even get to make her cry with your speech .

Writing anything, be it a speech or a letter, can be a challenging task. Here is a step-by-step guide to help make the process a little easier:

• Reflect on your sisterhood
• Create an outline
• Start drafting the speech
• Revise your first draft
• Ask for insights and feedback
• Make the final revisions
• Prepare for the big day

Each step is discussed more specifically below, including a detailed outline of a maid of honor speech for your sister. Tips are also given. Lastly, examples are provided to give you an idea of what a typical speech looks like. 

Writing a Maid of Honor Speech for Your Sister: Step-by-Step Guide

Step 1: Reflect on Your Sisterhood

If your sister chose you as her maid of honor, it means she treasures your close bond. Look back on the past years and see how your relationship has evolved. Likewise, reflect on your and your sister’s personalities and your growth over the years.

You may want to narrow down specific stories, especially those that can highlight your relationship, personality, and growth. These anecdotes can add humor or sincerity to your speech as a maid of honor . 

Step 2: Create an Outline

Preparing an outline for a maid of honor speech for your sister can help you organize your thoughts, ultimately making writing easier. Here is an example of a structure, though you are free to customize it however you want:

• Greet your guests briefly.
• If you want, you can thank the vendors and other bridal party members for their hard work.
• Introduce yourself and your relationship with the bride.
• Share a memory you have with your sister. You can be funny, lighthearted, or serious.
• Highlight her qualities, quirks, and everything that you love about her.
• Reflect on what it means to be a sister.
• To transition to the next item on the outline, mention any significant milestones or turning points in your relationship.
• Describe how you two first met and what was your first impression of them.
• Recall a memorable interaction or story that shows their relationship.
• You can also share how you grew to like and trust your sister’s partner.
• Discuss how they complement each other.
• Highlight any positive changes you have seen in your sister and her partner over the years.
• Offer your heartfelt well-wishes for the future.
• If you have any piece of marriage advice, you can add them here.
• End your maid of honor speech for your sister with a toast to the newlyweds. Encourage everyone to raise their glass or clink it in celebration .

Step 3: Start Drafting the Speech

Once your outline is ready, you can begin with the speech itself. Just write whatever comes to mind, and do not worry about the technicalities like grammar and length. Focus on putting down into words everything you want to express.

Step 4: Revise your First Draft

After finishing your first draft, you should start revising what you wrote. On the technical side, this means fixing any grammatical errors, rewriting any awkward phrases, and rearranging some parts to improve the speech’s flow.

As you read through your speech over and over again, you should also start imagining how you will deliver it. Try giving the speech to yourself and determine the tone, rhythm, and speed that works best. Mark down the places where you should pause to catch your breath (or wait for applause).

Step 5: Ask for Insights and Feedback

Approach someone you trust—such as other bridal party members—and ask them to listen to your speech. By this point, you should have practiced your delivery a few times.

Give your speech to your test audience. Be open and responsive to constructive criticism. Moreover, observe their reactions and see if you need to change anything in the tone or pace of your delivery.

Step 6: Make the Final Revisions

Given the feedback you received from your test audience and any personal changes you see necessary, it is time to make the final revisions. Remove anything that feels unnatural or forced, and go through the text to ensure that you did not miss any grammatical errors.

Step 7: Prepare for the Big Day

Print a copy of your maid of honor speech for your sister. Although you can try to memorize the entire speech or write down key points, having a backup is a great idea—things can get emotional, after all, and you might forget what you practiced.

Moreover, keep in mind any positive coping strategies for anxiety. Some breathing techniques can help you manage your nerves.

How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech for Sister: Tips

Add Personal Touches

You can make your speech as your sister’s maid of honor more unique by adding personal touches, such as lines from a song, a movie, or a book that you both love. If she has iconic catchphrases, you can incorporate that, too.

Keep It Short

A great speech—regardless of who is giving it—is not too long to bore listeners and not too short to feel rushed or incomplete. For your maid of honor speech, aim for 4–6 minutes. Any more than that and you risk losing your guests’ attention

Keep It Light

The reception is no occasion to air out any family laundry. If you have unresolved tension with your sister or other relatives, keep it out of your speech and talk about it another time—preferably somewhere more private.

Find the Balance

In the same vein, try to find the right balance between humor and sincerity. This is a maid of honor speech, not a stand-up comedy set. Juxtapose emotional depth with lightheartedness; this will get your guests invested in this journey with you.

Identify Key Themes

If you are struggling with writing a cohesive maid of honor speech for your sister, it might help if you identify 2–3 key themes and center your speech around those.

You can focus on things like your sister’s strength, resilience, humor, kindness, intelligence, and so on.

Think about how these themes have played out in her life and her relationship. The anecdotes you will incorporate must show these themes one way or another.

Maid of Honor Speech for Sister: Lovely Examples

Humorous and Quirky Maid of Honor Speech for Sister

To all our family and friends,

Good evening! For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Alissa, the proud and slightly teary-eyed maid of honor and, more importantly, Denise’s younger sister.

First of all, can we take a moment to appreciate how gorgeous and stunning Denise looks today? Huh? What about Tom? I mean, you’re not too bad yourself!

Growing up with Denise was kinda like living in a reality show—you can’t change the channel, so you just have to look at the second camera every time someone says something stupid.

I saw every side of her: the dramatic, the hilarious, and the extraordinarily compassionate. Like the time she spent hours consoling me after I lost my doll, or when she sold lemonade and old clothes just to raise funds for our local animal shelter.

All this to say, she’s always been my role model, even when she wore those questionable neon braces in high school. The journey to get where we are today has been surreal. We’ve shared secrets, clothes (sometimes without asking), and countless laughs.

Denise, you’ve always been my anchor, my confidant, and on rare occasions, my partner in crime. Remember that time when we “borrowed” Dad’s car for a joyride at midnight and swore never to speak of it again? Oh, oops. Sorry, dad.

When Tom and Denise first got together, I saw and felt a change in her. I don’t know how else to describe it, other than someone turning up the brightness—and volume—of her soul. Tom, your kindness, patience, and outstanding ability to deal with all of Denise’s hyper-fixations make you the perfect match for my sister. Her soulmate, even.

Together, you two are an unstoppable team. Whether it’s your epic karaoke duets, adventurous travels, or hours of just lying down and simply binge-watching a series while sharing dessert—you two are the perfect fit.

So, here’s to love, laughter, and a lifetime of stealing each other’s fries and pretending you didn’t. Denise and Tom Stalzer, may your life be filled with moments as beautiful and precious as the vows you shared today.

Everyone, please raise your glass in honor of the newlyweds!

Short and Sweet Maid of Honor Speech for Your Sister

Hello everyone! I hope you’re all having a blast tonight.

I’m Trina, the incredibly proud sister and maid of honor of our gorgeous bride, Kim. Watching her exchange vows with Mario, the dapper groom, is truly a joy.

Kim, you’ve always been my player two in everything. You always beat me at Scrabble, but you could never one-up me in chess. However, my favorite game will forever be our roleplays; remember when we’d play ‘wedding’ in our backyard? I’m so emotional standing here, in your actual wedding, getting to celebrate your love.

When you met Mario, I saw a happiness in your eyes that was never there before. Mario, thank you for bringing that joy into her life and keeping my sister’s soul bright. Thank you for loving her so fiercely and unwaveringly. Because of that, we officially welcome you to our family.

This is only the beginning of the biggest journey of your life so far. If it’s anything like the adventures you’ve already had, I’m sure it will be nothing short of extraordinary.

Everyone, raise your glass and toast to love, laughter, and a happy ever after! Mr. and Mrs. Carter, may the future be as sweet, romantic, and elegant as this day.

Final Thoughts

The thought of writing a speech, revising it, and then delivering it in front of an audience is understandably intimidating. However, with the right tools and tips, you can breeze through the process and create a unique speech as your sister’s maid of honor.

If nothing else, make sure that you write the speech authentically and sincerely. As long as you put your heart and soul into it, everything will turn out okay. Just make sure to place tissues for your sister nearby—she might erupt into tears because of your words.

Marisa Jenkins

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Best Maid of Honor Speech For Sister

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This blog post is all about the best maid of honor speeches for my sister.

As a maid of honor, it’s an incredible privilege to stand by your sister’s side as she begins her new life with her husband.

The wedding day is a celebration of their love, and your speech is an opportunity to express your support and share your own unique perspective on their relationship.

Crafting the perfect maid of honor speech for your sister and her husband can be challenging, but with the right inspiration and guidance, it’s possible to create a truly unforgettable tribute.

In this blog post, we’ve compiled some of the best maid of honor speeches for sister examples to help you craft a speech that’s tailored to your sister’s personality and the unique dynamics of your relationship.

From heartwarming stories to joyful sentiments, these examples provide a roadmap to creating a speech that perfectly captures the spirit of the occasion.

Whether you’re struggling to find the right words or looking for creative ways to express your feelings, this post has everything you need to deliver the perfect maid of honor speech for your sister and her husband.

Best Maid of Honor Speeches For Sister

First, we will break down the important components of your maid of honor speech. Here are some steps you’ll need to follow to create a loving, light-hearted, and funny speech to share with wedding guests.

Calm down, you’ve got this, and here is a way to overcome any anxieties you may have in completing your speech.

The number one thing when writing your Maid of Honor speech is to shift your mindset . Don’t think about this as a formal speech but think about it as a testimonial to life with your sister and how she makes your life better.

You have first-hand experience with this, by the way, you’re practically an expert on life with your sis. (You may not know EVERYTHING, but you know enough for a wonderful speech)

This will give your sister’s spouse and their family a glimpse of what to look forward to. Give a review of what they could expect from her and how lucky they are to have her.

1. Begin with a funny story about the bride. Since you are one of her closest people, you have an endless archive of stories to pick from. Whether it be from childhood, teenage years, or early adulthood.

Just make sure that the story really highlights some of her best qualities. This is sure to get the guests intrigued and maybe even laughing depending on the story you tell.

2. Share your love for your sister. This is the main part of the speech. Your sister chose you to do this honor so this is your chance to thank her and tell her how happy you are to be in this moment with her on her special day.

This is also a good chance to give the crowd some significant qualities about the bride they may not know. For example, some of the bride’s achievements and other things you admire about her.

3. Talk about her partner . Take a moment to talk about the person your sister is marrying. The positive qualities that you’ve noticed about them. You could give a funny story about their relationship. Talk about why they make such a great couple and how their qualities complement each other. \

4. Give advice to the couple. If you could, give some relationship/ marriage advice. Or give some general advice to the newlyweds. It’s important to keep this part light-hearted. You could do this by sharing a memory or quote.

5. Thank the guests for coming. Take time to thank the guests for being a part of the special day. You could also thank the parents of the couple, the wedding party, or anyone else who played a significant role in the wedding.

6. End with a toast to the couple. Offer your congratulations and well wishes to the newlyweds. Then ask wedding guests to join you for a toast to the lovely couple.

Best Maid of Honor Speech For Sister Examples

Here’s an example of a maid of honor speech from big sister to little sister.

Good evening, everyone! I’m thrilled to be standing here today as the maid of honor for my little sister [Sister’s Name]. As her big sister, it’s been such a joy to watch her grow up into the beautiful, intelligent, and kind-hearted woman that she is today.

One of my earliest memories of my sister is when we were kids, and she was always so determined to keep up with me. I remember she once tried to climb a tree that was way too tall for her, and she ended up getting stuck for hours until our dad came to rescue her. [Pause for laughter] But that’s the thing about my sister – she never gives up, and she always manages to find a way to succeed.

Speaking of success, I have to say that I’m incredibly proud of the person my sister has become. She’s a brilliant [Profession], a loving partner to her fiancé [Partner’s Name], and an amazing friend to everyone she meets. And let’s not forget her sense of humor – I’m pretty sure she inherited our dad’s love of puns, and I’m convinced that’s why we get along so well.

Now, I know I’m not the only one who’s excited to see my sister tie the knot with [Partner’s Name]. They make such a wonderful pair, and I know they’re going to have a lifetime of happiness together. In fact, I think they’re the perfect match – he’s the yin to her yang, the peanut butter to her jelly, the Ross to her Rachel. [Pause for laughter]

As the maid of honor, I feel like it’s my duty to impart some words of wisdom to the newlyweds. So, here’s my advice: never stop laughing, never stop loving, and never forget the things that brought you together in the first place. And when things get tough, remember that you have each other to lean on, and you have a whole family and group of friends who love and support you.

I want to take a moment to thank everyone here for being a part of this special day. To the parents of the bride and groom, thank you for raising such wonderful children. And to the rest of the wedding party, thank you for your hard work and dedication in making this day so perfect.

So, to my sister and her new husband, I raise my glass and offer a toast: may your love continue to grow and flourish, may your life together be filled with laughter and joy, and may you never forget that you have a big sister who loves you both more than words can express. Cheers!

Here’s an example of a maid of honor speech from little sister to big sister.

Good evening, everyone. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], and I have the pleasure of being the little sister of the beautiful bride, [Sister’s Name].

I have to admit, I’m feeling a little nervous up here. I’ve never given a speech before, and I’m pretty sure my sister only asked me to be her maid of honor because she knew I’d be too scared to say no. [Pause for laughter]

Growing up, my sister and I were as different as night and day. She was always the responsible one, while I was the wild child. She got good grades and followed all the rules, while I was constantly getting in trouble for breaking them. But no matter what, my sister was always there for me.

In fact, I remember one time when I was in middle school and had a huge crush on a boy in my class. I had no idea how to talk to him, so my sister took it upon herself to help me out. She spent hours coaching me on what to say, and even came to school with me one day to give me moral support. [Pause for laughter] Needless to say, it didn’t work out with that guy, but I’ll always be grateful to my sister for trying.

Now that my sister is getting married, I have to admit that I’m a little jealous. I mean, she gets to wear a gorgeous dress, have all her friends and family around her, and dance the night away with the man of her dreams. Meanwhile, I’ll be over here trying not to trip on my own two feet. [Pause for laughter]

All joking aside, I couldn’t be happier for my sister and her new husband. They’re perfect for each other, and I know they’re going to have a beautiful life together. And to my sister, I want to say: thank you for always being there for me, even when I was being a pain in the you-know-what. I love you, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you and [Partner’s Name].

So, let’s raise a glass to the newlyweds. May your life together be filled with love, laughter, and plenty of adventures. Cheers!

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10 Heartfelt Maid of Honor Sister Speech Examples to Inspire You

Discover heartfelt and memorable maid of honor sister speech examples. Get inspired and craft the perfect tribute for your sister's big day!

By Juan C Olamendy · Updated: June 26, 2024

Need help with your Maid of Honor Speech?

Picture this: You're standing in front of a room full of people, all eyes on you, and your mind goes blank. Sound familiar? If you're the Maid of Honor and your sister's big day is fast approaching, the pressure to deliver a memorable speech can be overwhelming. But fear not! This article on "maid of honor sister speech examples" is here to save the day.

Why is this so important? Because your speech is more than just words—it's a heartfelt tribute to your sister and her new journey. It’s your chance to share your love, memories, and well-wishes, setting the tone for the celebration and leaving a lasting impression on everyone present.

By the time you finish reading, you'll have a treasure trove of tips, tricks, and examples to craft a speech that’s as unique and special as your bond with your sister. Ready to become the speech-giving superstar you were always meant to be? Let’s dive in!

Maid of Honor Sister Speech Examples

Introduction.

Being chosen as the Maid of Honor is a significant and heartwarming responsibility. One of the most important tasks you’ll undertake is delivering the Maid of Honor speech. This speech is not just a formality; it’s a heartfelt tribute to your sister and her new journey. But where do you start?

Why a Maid of Honor speech is important

A Maid of Honor speech is a pivotal moment in any wedding. It’s your chance to share your love, memories, and well-wishes for the bride and groom. This speech sets the tone for the celebration and can leave a lasting impression on everyone present. It’s a moment to celebrate your sister’s happiness and the bond you share.

The unique challenge of writing a speech for your sister

Writing a Maid of Honor speech for your sister comes with its own set of challenges. You want to capture the essence of your relationship, share personal anecdotes, and convey your emotions without turning into a sobbing mess. It’s a delicate balance of humor, sentiment, and sincerity. But don’t worry, with the right guidance and examples, you can craft a speech that will be remembered for years to come.

How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech for Your Sister

How do you write the perfect maid of honor speech.

Writing the perfect Maid of Honor speech involves a few key steps. First, you need to start with Brainstorming Your Speech . Think about your favorite memories with your sister, her relationship with the groom, and what makes their love story unique. Don’t edit or censor your words during this process. Let your thoughts flow freely.

The brainstorming process

Begin by jotting down all the memories, stories, and qualities that come to mind when you think of your sister. Consider her quirks, her strengths, and the moments that define your relationship. This raw material will be the foundation of your speech.

Do not edit or censor your words

During the brainstorming phase, it’s crucial not to edit or censor yourself. Write down everything that comes to mind, no matter how trivial it may seem. You can always refine and polish your speech later.

Write the Perfect Sister Speech

The introduction to your maid of honor sister speech.

Start your speech with a warm and engaging introduction. You might want to thank the guests for being there and express how honored you are to be the Maid of Honor. This sets a positive tone and grabs everyone’s attention.

History with the bride

Share a brief history of your relationship with the bride. Talk about your childhood memories, the adventures you’ve had together, and the bond you share. This personal touch will resonate with the audience and make your speech more relatable.

Life before the groom

Reflect on your sister’s life before she met the groom. Highlight her achievements, her passions, and the person she was before love entered her life. This sets the stage for the next part of your speech.

The romance

Now, transition to the love story. Talk about how your sister met the groom, their journey together, and what makes their relationship special. Share anecdotes that showcase their love and commitment to each other.

End your speech with a heartfelt conclusion. Express your best wishes for the couple’s future and raise a toast to their happiness. This is your moment to leave a lasting impression, so make it count.

10 tips for writing your Maid of Honor speech

Tip #1: don’t wait until the last minute..

Start writing your speech well in advance. This gives you plenty of time to refine and practice it.

Tip #2: Make it personal.

Your speech should reflect your unique relationship with the bride. Share personal stories and memories that only you can tell.

Tip #3: Share defining moments of your relationship.

Highlight the moments that define your bond with your sister. These could be childhood adventures, shared secrets, or significant milestones.

Tip #4: Compliment the spouse.

Acknowledge the groom and express your happiness for your sister’s choice. This shows your support for their union.

Tip #5: Thank the guests.

Take a moment to thank the guests for being part of the celebration. This adds a touch of gratitude to your speech.

Tip #6: Balance the wit and emotion.

A good speech has a balance of humor and sentiment. Share funny anecdotes but also express your heartfelt emotions.

Tip #7: Keep it short.

Aim for a speech that’s around 5-7 minutes long. This keeps the audience engaged and ensures you don’t lose their attention.

Tip #8: Use props.

Props can add a fun element to your speech. Consider using photos, letters, or other memorabilia to illustrate your stories.

Tip #9: Practice makes perfect.

Practice your speech multiple times. This helps you get comfortable with the content and delivery.

Tip #10: Have fun!

Enjoy the moment. Your enthusiasm and joy will be contagious and make your speech memorable.

Maid of Honor Speech Examples for the Sister

What are good maid of honor speech examples.

Good Maid of Honor speech examples are those that capture the essence of your relationship with the bride and convey your emotions effectively. They should be personal, engaging, and heartfelt. I’m providing these examples to give you a starting point and inspire your own speech.

Why am I providing maid of honor speech examples?

These examples serve as a guide to help you structure your speech and find the right words to express your feelings. They can spark ideas and give you the confidence to write a speech that’s uniquely yours.

Maid of Honor Introduction Examples

Wendi’s maid of honor speech:.

“Good evening, everyone. For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Wendi, the bride’s sister and Maid of Honor. I want to start by thanking everyone for being here to celebrate this special day. Growing up with [Bride’s Name] has been an adventure, and I’m honored to stand by her side today.”

Storytelling Examples for your Maid of Honor Speech

Story example:.

“One of my favorite memories with [Bride’s Name] is when we decided to bake a cake for our parents’ anniversary. We were so young and had no idea what we were doing. The kitchen was a disaster, but we laughed so much that day. It’s moments like these that define our bond.”

Examples for How to Talk about Her New Spouse

Your sister's "prince charming".

“When [Bride’s Name] met [Groom’s Name], I knew something was different. She was happier, more confident, and full of life. [Groom’s Name], you’ve brought out the best in my sister, and for that, I’m forever grateful. You truly are her Prince Charming.”

Examples for How to End Your Maid of Honor Speech

How to end a maid of honor speech.

“Let’s raise our glasses to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. May your love continue to grow and may you always find joy in each other’s company. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and love. Cheers!”

Additional Speech Tips

Choosing quotes for a memorable maid of honor speech.

Incorporating quotes can add depth and resonance to your speech. Choose quotes that reflect the theme of love, marriage, or sisterhood. For example, “A sister is both your mirror – and your opposite” by Elizabeth Fishel can beautifully capture the essence of your relationship.

Follow a Maid of Honor Speech Template

Using a Printable Maid of Honor Speech Outline can help you structure your speech effectively. A template ensures you cover all the essential elements and maintain a logical flow.

Need more help with writing your maid of honor speech?

If you need more guidance, check out resources like Maid of Honor Sister Speech for additional tips and examples. These resources can provide further inspiration and support.

FAQs on Maid of Honor Sister Speech

What to say in a maid of honor speech for a sister.

In a Maid of Honor speech for your sister, share personal anecdotes, express your love and admiration, and highlight her relationship with the groom. End with heartfelt wishes for their future.

What to say about sister in a wedding speech?

Talk about your sister’s qualities, your shared memories, and how she has grown over the years. Mention her relationship with the groom and how happy you are for her.

How to write a sister of the bride speech?

Start with an engaging introduction, share personal stories, talk about the bride’s relationship with the groom, and conclude with best wishes. Use a mix of humor and sentiment.

How to begin a maid of honor speech sample?

Begin with a warm greeting and introduction. Thank the guests for being there and express your honor at being the Maid of Honor. This sets a positive tone for your speech.

Does the maid of honor have to give a speech?

While it’s traditional for the Maid of Honor to give a speech, it’s not mandatory. If you’re uncomfortable with public speaking, you can opt for a different way to express your sentiments.

Useful Links

• Maid of Honor Sister Speech
• Brainstorming Your Speech
• Introduction Examples
• How to End a Maid of Honor Speech
• Printable Maid of Honor Speech Outline
• Best Man Speech Guide
• 10 Tips for Crafting the Perfect Best Friend Speech at a Wedding
• 7 Hilarious Maid of Honor Speeches for Best Friend: Make Her Day
• 10 Hilarious and Heartfelt Maid of Honor Speeches for Your Sister
• 5 Tips for Crafting a Memorable Maid of Honor Speech for Cousin
• 5 Tips for Crafting a Memorable Maid of Honor Speech for Little Sister
• 5 Tips for Crafting a Memorable Maid of Honor Speech for Sister-in-Law
• 10 Hilarious Tips for Crafting Memorable Mother of the Groom Speeches
• 5 Tips for Crafting a Memorable Speech for Best Friend Wedding
• 7 Tips for Crafting Memorable Wedding Speeches for Best Friends

Maid of honor sister speech examples can provide invaluable guidance for crafting a heartfelt and memorable tribute. These examples highlight the importance of sharing personal anecdotes, expressing genuine emotions, and offering well-wishes for the future. By incorporating these elements, you can create a speech that resonates with both the bride and the audience. Remember, the key is to speak from the heart and celebrate the unique bond you share with your sister.

In conclusion, a well-prepared Maid of Honor speech can set the tone for a joyous celebration. Use these examples as inspiration to convey your love and support. Your words will not only honor your sister but also create a cherished memory for everyone present. Embrace this special moment and let your speech reflect the depth of your relationship.

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