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How to Write a Tribute for a Mother Who Passed Away (5 Examples)

Losing a mother is one of the most difficult experiences in life. But writing a tribute that honor’s your mothers memory can bring some real comfort and closure.

When I wrote a tribute for my mother after losing her I found the process of writing very cathartic. It helped me to remember what a wonderful person she was and the good times I had with her.

You can also use your tribute or sections of it in a eulogy or as part of the funeral or memorial service.

So if you want to write a tribute to your mom but aren’t sure how keep reading. The tips and examples here will help you to write your own meaningful tribute to your late mother and to say goodbye .

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How to Write a Tribute to a Mother

There are some easy steps you can take to get your tribute perfect. You don’t have to include all of the following but it will give you some good ideas and a starting point if you want to write your own.

If you want to see some sample tributes then click here to scroll down and past these steps .

Choose the Right Tone

The first thing you should do is decide the tone your tribute is going to take. This will depend on your relationship with your mother. These are a few examples of how you may want your tribute to sound.

  • Warm and affectionate – if your mother was your best friend and close confidante then a warm and sentimental tone would be fitting. You might share your fondest memories of here you have and the ways she made you feel loved.
  • Respectful and reverent – on the other hand if your relationship was more formal then you could go for a respectful and admiring tone. This would allow you to highlight your mother’s strengths and virtues and focus on her accomplishments.
  • Honest and candid – often our relationships with our parents are complex. If that was the case then don’t gloss over those difficulties. An open and truthful tone that acknowledges both the highs and lows can be just as meaningful as one that is all positive.
  • Hopeful and grateful – Even if your grief is raw then it might be good to try and at least end your tribute looking forward with some hope. Maybe showing appreciation for all your mom did.

Use Meaningful Anecdotes

An anecdote or story that gives some insight into your mothers personality or the relationship you had is always good to include. This can bring your tribute to life and really make others understand the type of person your mom was.

Some examples of anecdotes you could use:

  • A time she gave you advice that you still live by today.
  • Inside jokes or silly memories that show her humor and warmth.
  • A favorite ritual or tradition you shared. Something like baking Christmas cookies together or a trip you always took.

Be as specific as you can and include lots of details. You want the memories to be as vivid as possible so describe everything you remember.

Highlight Her Accomplishments

What achievements made your mother proud? Think about the accomplishments that she was pleased with.

Things like educational degrees, career highlights, creative talents or any community service she did. Anything that you know she found fulfilling and showed pride in.

For example: “Mom was the first female engineer at her company and loved mentoring younger women entering the field.”

But also don’t overlook what might be considered more mundane. If she was proud of the family she raised then mention that – “Raising four children and managing a household was mom’s greatest accomplishment.”

Describe Her Positive Qualities

A tribute should focus on the positive aspects of the person, in this case your mother. So talk about her strengths and what made her special.

For instance you could say: “Mom faced every challenge with courage and determination. Even when diagnosed with cancer, she stayed positive.”

But it doesn’t have to be something sad or related to her death. Things like loyalty, kindness, patience, how fun loving she was etc. are all qualities you can mention in your tribute.

Here’s a few more examples of what else you could include:

  • “Mom treated everyone with such kindness, no one had a bad word to say about her.”
  • “No matter the situation mom managed to find the positives. She was so upbeat and enjoyed life to the fullest.”
  • “I always knew I could turn to my mom whenever I was struggling. She had such wisdom and her advice helped me through some of the hardest times.”

Pick a Meaningful Quote

This isn’t a necessity, and some may prefer not to, but consider including an appropriate quote. One that reflects the love of a mother and child.

For example:

  • “There is nothing as sincere as a mother’s kiss.” – Saleem Sharma
  • “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.” – Princess Diana
  • “Life began with waking up and loving my mother’s face.” – George Eliot

Or alternatively choose a quote from literature, movies etc. your mother loved. Introduce it by saying why it reminds you of her or talk about why it meant so much to her – it was from her favorite film, writer etc.

These quotes about losing a loved one are a good starting point or see all our quotes for more ideas.

Close with a Tribute

Most tributes finish by directly addressing the person they are about. So speak to your mother and sum up her lasting impact.

These are a few closing tribute ideas:

  • “You were the heart of our family, Mom, and that heart will never stop beating within us.”
  • “I hope I can be as strong, caring and giving as you were. You set an amazing example for us all.”
  • “Your guidance, wisdom and love made me who I am today. I hope to pass those gifts to my own children someday.”
  • “While we may be grieving your loss your spirit lives on in your children and grandchildren.”
  • “We miss you every day but your memory guides and comforts us.”

For more ideas see these tribute messages for loved one’s .

How to Write a Tribute if You had a Difficult Relationship

If you and your mom didn’t get on well or your relationship was complicated it can be hard to write a fitting tribute. You may have mixed feelings and be unsure of how to properly express them.

A good way to work around those concerns are to focus on the positive memories you do have, even if they are small moments. Or you could highlight her virtues, talking about things like her strength and resilience when faced with adversity.

For most of us the mother-child connection remains, even when fractured. You can honor what your mom meant to you by being honest and acknowledging your complex relationship while still reflecting on the impact she had one your life.

Remember that grief comes in many forms – a troubled relationship does not diminish your loss. So your tribute should reflect your truths.

Sample Tributes for Mother

If you’re still unsure of what to put in your mothers tribute these samples that take different approaches should help.

Sample 1 – Warm, Affectionate Tone

Our beloved matriarch, Helen Jones, passed away last month at the age of 87. Mom was the heart and soul of our family. A constant source of love, wisdom and encouragement. I can still feel the warmth of her hugs and her infectious laugh even now. And she had a smile that was so radiant and lit up every room she entered.

From childhood through adulthood Mom and I shared a bond that was special. She was my the person I knew I could turn to, confide in and look for help when I needed it. Basically she was my best friend. When I was scared, she soothed me. When I achieved success, she cheered louder than anyone. And when I struggled it was her who lifted me up with a faith in me that never wavered.

And family meant so much to her. She had a gift for making every family occasion magical, especially Christmas. Some of my most treasured memories are of baking cookies, decorating the tree and curling up in mom’s lap as she read “Twas the Night Before Christmas.”. The holidays will never be the same without her.

While we mourn mom’s passing we take comfort knowing her legacy lives on through her children and grandchildren. I will be forever grateful for the unconditional love she gave me. Her kindness and warmth touched everyone she met. Losing her leaves an ache in our hearts, but also inspiration to live up to her beautiful example.

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Sample 2 – Respectful, Grateful Tone

Dr. Sophie Roberts, beloved mother, grandmother and groundbreaking scientist, passed away on January 5th at age 78. She lived a full and vibrant life defined by her intellectual curiosity, pioneering research and love for her family.

Dr. Roberts was a molecular biologist who made critical contributions to understanding RNA. She authored over 100 research papers and won numerous awards, including the National Medal of Science for her advances in genetics. She was especially proud when one of her discoveries led to a major breakthrough in treating leukemia.

While Dr. Roberts achieved so much professionally she always put family first. Whether it be a sporting every, play or graduation ceremony, she never missed a single one. She was always encouraging and helping her children to dream as big as they could. The scientific knowledge she passed on was so valuable but above all it is the love and support she gave that we will remember most.

Mom lived a life guided by determination and discipline. She was our role model and exemplified hard work, excellence and perseverance. While her absence is felt so deeply her principles and caring examples she set continue to guide us. We will always be grateful for the full, rich life she led and the time we had together. Your spirit lives on, Mom, through all you taught us.

Sample 3 – Honest and Candid Tone

Our relationship was complicated, but I always knew deep down that you loved me, mom. We clashed often as I was growing up. You had such high expectations for me and I felt like they were impossible to reach. It weighed heavy on me and I struggled to deal with that pressure. And we had our fair share of arguments over the years. But now you’re gone all I can think about is how much you sacrificed for me and that you only wanted me to have the best.

You worked three jobs to make sure I had everything I needed. I never went without, even when money was tight. And you always supported my interests, whether that was driving me to piano lessons or rehearsals for plays. It didn’t matter when they were or how exhausted you were from work, you made sure I got there. I know I didn’t say it enough, or at all, but I was so proud to call you my mother.

We had our differences, of that there’s no doubt, but your actions spoke louder than words. You may not have shown your love through words but you did instead through sacrifice. I admire you so much for the hardships you went through to raise me right. I wish we had more time together to mend fences. But I know you’re still watching over me and I am going to make sure I live a life that would make you proud.

Sample 4 – Hopeful and Grateful Tone

Losing you so suddenly Mom has left us all devastated. Not having you around and the pain of your passing is still raw. Our family will never be whole again with you gone. But even in such grief we can strive to find comfort in all the wonderful memories we shared over the years.

Like our yearly beach trips, where we built sandcastles, collected shells and watched the sunset over the ocean. And all those times you cheered so loud at my basketball games you drowned out every other parent. Or when you swallowed your fear of flying just to visit me in college.

Your love was like the ocean – vast, powerful and constant. You gave so much and asked for nothing in return. And while you may no longer be with us we feel your love still burning as strongly in our hearts and memories.

I miss you every single moment, mom. But I know you’ll always be with me, your spirit by my side and supporting me like you did in life. We will all honor your memory by following your generous and kind example and trying to do as much good as you did.

hopeful example tribute for a mother

Sample 5 – Reverent and Respectful Tone

On February 19th we lost our beloved mother, Andrea Carter, at the blessed age of 94. She lived an extraordinary life defined by serving others and a wisdom we all benefited from. Her faith was an ever present throughout her life and so important to her.

Andrea set an example of what it means to walk with God. She volunteered tirelessly with the church and could always be counted on to provide meals and support to those in need. She could lift the spirits of everyone she met through an overflowing of compassion and kindness.

Andrea faced many of life’s challenges with grace, courage and humility. Even into her 90’s she maintained fierce independence, wit and lust for life that was inspiring to all who knew her. Her mind remained sharp as a tack and she took great joy in being with her many grandchildren and great grandchildren.

While we grieve her passing we can find solace in Andrea’s faith. She is in the arms of the Lord now. We will honor Andrea’s beautiful soul by following the example she set – loving with all her heart, selflessly serving others and walking faithfully with God.

Writing a tribute for a mother is never going to be easy. Emotions will be raw, you’ll still probably be grieving and will have to think of those most cherished memories you had with your mom.

But while it may take its toll you can take some comfort knowing your words will contribute to memorializing her memory. And being able to pay tribute to someone as special as your mom will be a big part of the grieving process.

So honor her life and all she meant to you with a fitting tribute.

Grief Support

For more help and support when dealing with losing a loved one and grief that follows these resources are worth checking out:

  • Cruse Bereavement Support – this article the crude bereavement charity talks through how to cope with the death of a parent .
  • The Motherless Podcast – writer and stand up comic Kelly Ford had a podcast that looks at the relationship and special grief we feel when we lose our mother.

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7+ tribute ideas for a mother who has passed away.

Paying tribute to a mother who has passed away is a common gesture children and others want to make. You’ll often find tributes in books, art, film, poems, and other media, but these aren’t the only places to pay tribute to someone you’ve lost. You can also pay tribute to a mother by doing any of the following: through an event, honorary donation, and other ways. Here’s some ideas to get you started on paying tribute to a mother who died.

Words to say at a funeral for your mother

If you're looking for suggestions on paying tribute to a mother at her funeral, you've come to the right place. Paying tribute can be done verbally or nonverbally, which can make it easier for all types of people to pay tribute to their mother at her funeral. In general, when paying tribute, you'll want to focus on the ways in which your mother was important to you, her impact on others, and what made her unique and special.

Example of a tribute to a mother who passed away

"Thank you so much to everyone for being here today to celebrate the life and honor the memory of my mother. To explain just how much my mother means to me is an impossible task, but I want to make sure that I pay tribute to my mother at her funeral. My mother was one of the strongest, bravest, and kindest humans to grace this planet. Without her, I wouldn't be here today, I wouldn't be the person I am, and I wouldn't have the life I have. She is everything to me, and more, and there's no way I could ever quantify the importance she's held in my life. My mother was the best mother a person could ask for: [list some of her qualities]. Thank you, mom, for everything. In closing, I'd like to read this poem, one of my mom's favorites: [Poem] I love you, mom."

Poems about the death of a mother

Funeral poems for mothers usually include a reference to their importance in our lives, their guidance and knowledge as a mom, their love of their family, or other aspects of motherhood. You can find some example poems about losing a mother and poems about the death of a mother below. These poems also serve as excellent mothers day poems for moms that have passed away.

A Sonnet for My Incomparable Mother by Joanna Fuchs "I think of all the things you gave to me / Sacrifice, devotion, love and tears / Your heart, your mind, your energy and soul / All these you spent on me throughout the years."

Goodbye Mom by Aneela Ahmed "As you leave today / Let me cry, let me say / My mom was my hero. / Leading me to right / Forgiving and loving / A star so bright. / So I lose today / My support, my light. / My dear Mom. / Making my life bright."

If Roses Grow in Heaven by Dolores M. Garcia "If roses grow in heaven, / Lord please pick a bunch for me, / Place them in my Mother’s arms / and tell her they’re from me."

Richer Than Gold by Strickland Gillilan “You may have tangible wealth untold / Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold / Richer than I you can never be / I had a mother who read to me.”

Wonderful Mother by Patrick O’Reilly "God made a wonderful mother, / A mother who never grows old; / He made her smile of the sunshine. / And He moulded her heart of pure gold; / In her eyes He placed bright shining stars, / In her cheeks fair roses you see; / God made a wonderful mother, / And He gave that dear mother to me."

When God Thought of Mother by Henry Ward Beecher "When God thought of mother, / He must have laughed with satisfaction, / and framed it quickly – / so rich, so deep, so divine, / so full of soul, power, and beauty, / as the conception."

A Mother’s Crown by Unknown "Heaven lit up with a mighty presence, / as the Angels all looked down. / Today the Lord was placing the jewels / Into my mother’s crown."

Quotes to include when paying tribute to a mother

You can include these quotes at the end of your tribute, eulogy, or speech, if you decide to give one.

“Those we love and lose are always connected by heartstrings into infinity.” - Terri Guillemets

“My mother is a never ending song in my heart of comfort, happiness and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune.” - Graycie Harmon

“There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart.” - Mahatma Gandhi

"What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us." - Helen Keller

"If I had a flower for every time I thought of you ... I could walk in my own garden forever." - Alfred Tennyson

"No matter what age... I'll always need you mom.­" - Unknown

"Don’t grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form." Rumi

Funeral ideas for mom

Many families and individuals want to make sure that their mother's funeral is a special one, but may not know where to start. When it comes to making a funeral unique or uniquely special, it's important to stay true to the individual who passed away. Here are some funeral ideas for a mother who has passed that can help you pay tribute to your mom.

Make a memorial website for her

A memorial website is a wonderful way to share the life of your mom with friends, family, and your community. Memorial websites on Ever Loved come with tons of features that other families have found incredibly helpful and useful in remembering the life of someone they loved. A memorial website gives you the opportunity to publish an obituary, share family history, start a fundraiser, share memories and photos, and share any important event information you have -- all for free.

Start a memorial website

Decorate the service with your mother's favorite flowers or colors

If your mother had a favorite color, plant, or type of flower, decorating the service with this plant or flower (or color) is a great way to honor her memory. You can take this one step further by asking attendees to wear a piece of clothing that's of this color or, if they're considering arrangements, to send arrangements with your specific flower or plant in mind.

Read out favorite memories or moments

Ask friends and loved ones to send in favorite memories or moments so that you can collect them and read them at some point during the ceremony. This is a great way to share moments or memories that others may not have been aware of and can help create a sense of shared joy and connectedness among those attending.

Give attendees a set of favorite recipes

Was your mom a great cook? Were there any recipes she was particularly known for? Sharing these recipes with loved ones is an easy and loving way to share something your mom was great at with all of those who know her.

Hold the memorial service somewhere special

If you're able to, hosting the memorial service in a special spot is an excellent way to honor your mother's memory. If you're not able to host

Plan an annual trip to a favorite spot

Did your mom have a favorite camping spot or favorite restaurant? Planning an annual trip to this spot in her memory is a great way to connect with your friends and family while honoring your mother's memory.

Do a butterfly or pigeon release

Butterfly or pigeon releases can add an added element of nature and beauty at your mother's funeral. You can ask that there's a moment of silence during this time or have a certain special song be sung or played. This is also a great time to ask folks to share a special moment or memory they had with your mother.

Have people plant in a garden dedicated to your mom

If you have space that'd you like to dedicate to your mom, consider planting a garden in her memory. Have friends and family come to the space and give them seeds or sprouts to plant in the garden. This is a wonderful way to see a living tribute grow over time in her memory.

Regardless of your chosen method of honoring your mother, it’s encouraged that you set up a memorial website - even if it’s just to share information on the other ways in which you’re memorializing your mom. Memorial websites are free, stay up indefinitely, and are easy to use and set up.

Create a memorial website

Find a funeral home, get free grief support, how to donate to charity in someone's memory.

Donating to a charity in memory of someone is a great way of honoring the person who has passed on and an excellent way of recognizing their contributions. The best charities are often those that have a personal connection, so you should try to find something that would be meaningful to the person w

Are Obituaries Required by Law?

Obituaries are a common way of remembering people who are no longer with us. We are often left to wonder what they were like, how their life was lived, and what legacy they left behind. While obituaries are important, you may find yourself questioning whether they're required by law. What if you don

When to Publish an Obituary

When someone passes away, there are several steps that are usually taken before they can be laid to rest; notifying family members and friends about the person's death is one of those tasks. Publishing an obituary formally announces the person’s death, tells their life story, and shares key funeral

Want to publish an obituary for free?

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Memorial Tributes to Mothers: Guide to Cherishing Her Memory

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A memorial tribute to a mom who passed away is also commonly referred to as a eulogy. This is a speech that someone close to the deceased gives at the funeral as a final tribute. Writing memorial tributes to deceased mothers can be difficult and emotional. Use the memorial tribute sample provided to help you get started.

A Fitting Tribute to a Mother at Her Funeral

The responsibility of giving the memorial tribute typically falls on the eldest child of the deceased, but this is not an absolute rule. It's important that the person giving the memorial tribute is not only willing to do so but has the ability to do so as well. In other words, a hysterical eldest child who may have a difficult time getting any words out at the podium might allow an adult grandchild who has a better ability to speak calmly in front of people to deliver the tribute.

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Writing the Tribute Speech to Mom

The purpose of the memorial tribute is to give those in attendance a feel for the life of the deceased. It's a way to share favorite memories and paint the deceased in a good light.

Writing Tips

While writing the tribute, keep in mind that being a mother was likely the most important role in the deceased's life. Highlight the role of motherhood in the memorial tribute, emphasizing how much the deceased loved and cared for her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, etc.

Some other items you should consider including within the eulogy are:

  • Birthdate and birthplace
  • Memories of what the deceased was like as a child and at other points of her life
  • Important dates such as a wedding date, graduation date, etc.
  • Names of her children
  • Occupation and/or hobbies
  • Mention of her faith or spirituality
  • Funny or warm memories

While writing the memorial tribute, think about what the deceased would have wanted said about her, and let that be your guide.

Memorial Tribute Samples

While your mother will undoubtedly have experienced a much different life than the moms featured in these sample tributes, use the samples as guides to writing your own. Notice how both samples exalt the mothers' role as mothers while also mentioning other aspects of their lives. If you need help to download the printable, check out these helpful tips .

Mom Tribute: The Animal Lover

The mom's life in this sample tribute was characterized by a great love for animals and a fearlessness later in life.

Mom Tribute: The Social Butterfly

This tribute is written about a mom who enjoyed socializing with other people so much that it became one of her identifying traits in life.

Prose and Poetry

It may be too painful for some people to read aloud a highly personalized tribute about their mother at her funeral. In these instances, a funeral poem specifically for moms or a song might be a good option. This allows you to use someone else's well-crafted words to honor your mother.

Deliver Your Tribute With Confidence

If getting up in front of people to speak makes you nervous, keep in mind that nobody expects perfection in your words or delivery. Those in attendance understand that this is a difficult time. Prepare as much as you can beforehand so that when the time comes to get up and deliver the eulogy it can be a fitting and memorable tribute to a special woman.

What are the key steps to writing a speech as a tribute to your mother?

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Writing a speech as a tribute to your mother can be a heartfelt and meaningful way to honor her life and express your love and gratitude. Here are the key steps to help you write a touching tribute speech:

Reflect on your mother's life and impact: Take some time to think about your mother's life, her accomplishments, and the ways she has influenced and shaped you. Consider her values, personality traits, and significant moments in her life [2] .

Brainstorm ideas and memories: Reflect on your own memories and experiences with your mother. Think about the moments that stand out, the lessons she taught you, and the qualities that made her special. Reach out to close relatives and friends for their insights and stories about your mother [2] .

Choose a theme: Select a theme or central idea that captures the essence of your mother's life. This could be a value she embodied, a passion she had, or a lesson she taught you. The theme will help guide the structure and content of your speech [2] .

Organize your speech: Decide on the structure and flow of your speech. You can choose to organize it chronologically, starting from her early life and progressing to the present, or you can arrange it thematically, focusing on different aspects of her life and personality [2] .

Write an introduction: Begin your speech with a strong opening that grabs the audience's attention and sets the tone. Introduce yourself, your relationship with your mother, and express your love and admiration for her [2] .

Share personal anecdotes and stories: Include specific stories and anecdotes that highlight your mother's character, achievements, and impact. These personal stories will help the audience connect with your mother and understand her significance in your life [2] .

Incorporate quotes or poems: Consider including meaningful quotes or poems that resonate with your mother's life or the theme of your speech. These can add depth and emotional impact to your tribute [2] .

Express gratitude and love: Take the opportunity to express your gratitude and love for your mother. Share how she has influenced and shaped you, and how her presence in your life has made a difference [2] .

End with a memorable conclusion: Conclude your speech with a memorable ending that leaves a lasting impression. You can end with a favorite quote, a heartfelt message, or a call to action to honor your mother's memory [2] .

Practice and refine your speech: Practice delivering your speech to ensure a smooth and confident delivery. Pay attention to your tone, pacing, and emotional expression. Make any necessary revisions to improve the flow and impact of your speech [2] .

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How to write a tribute to my mother at her funeral? 20+ examples

Paying tribute to a loved one at their funeral can be daunting, especially because of the overwhelming emotions. Thinking of the best words to honour them might not be as simple. This guide on how to write a tribute to my mother at her funeral eases the task.

How to write a tribute to my mother at her funeral

TABLE OF CONTENTS

A short tribute to my late mother, emotional tribute to a mother, memorial quotes for mom, 1. if roses grow in heaven by dolores m. garcia, 2. richer than gold by strickland gillilan, 3. if there are any heavens my mother will by e. e. cummings, 4. mother o’ mine by rudyard kipling, 5. wonderful mother by patrick o’reilly.

Writing memorial tributes to a deceased mother can be emotional. Therefore, these samples focus on helping you bear the burden as you go through the sombre period.

How to write a tribute to my mother at her funeral

The speech should not be too short - the stinginess of words can hurt loved ones. It should also not be too long - an unnecessarily long monologue will touch fresh wounds and aggravate the grief.

So, how do you write a funeral tribute to your mother? The purpose of a eulogy is to recall favourite memories and say something memorable about the deceased. It should put the pain of a loss in good light. So, let’s start with some writing tips:

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  • While writing the tribute, think about the importance of your mother in your life; remember her love and care.
  • Mention some important events and dates of her life, hobbies, the power of her faith, or any other important aspect of her life.
  • Write about the aspects of your mother’s personality (generosity, humour, kindness).
  • Be careful with emotions. The words should not be very tragic or painful for you and others.
  • Avoid long sentences, complex words, and phrases.

Short tribute to my mother

How can I remember my late mother? Here are some of the examples of short tributes that you could use:

  • My mother was an inspiring soul, always there for all who came to her with their troubles. Her home was open to everyone, and her hospitality made them feel important. She was the most loving, humble, compassionate, understanding, family-orientated woman and one of the most beautiful souls one could ever meet. I am going to miss you so much, mum.
  • To the world, you were one person, but to me, you were the world. You did not have much, but we always felt like we had everything. You did not leave millions in your bank account, but you left a legacy worth much more.
  • You taught me love, patience and endurance. You taught me how to pray and led by example. You praised me whenever I did good and pointed out my mistakes with that gentle voice. You encouraged me to work hard in school and taught me how to read and write. I still remember your voice as you read me bedtime stories.
  • Mother, you were the truest, dearest, more than a mother to me. I called you a friend, sister, cousin and also dad when I lost dad. You stood alone for 20 years after dad passed on, and only God knows the inner strength you had.
  • You were precious, a gift from God, so much beauty, grace, love and patience you possessed. You touched my heart in so many ways. Even on dark days, your strength and smile made me realize I had an angel beside me. I do not know how I will do life without you.

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If you wish to pay tribute to a mother-in-law who passed away and you are short of words, these are some of the messages you could use to express your pain.

  • Not a day goes by that you are not missed. I thought it might get easier as time went by, but it does not. I do not know how to come to terms with reality, but I know that you, for sure, are the best mother a son could ask for in so many ways.
  • You saw beauty in everything in life; you were a very simple-minded human being. You were the best person morally that I have ever known. You taught us how to live life to the fullest. I promise to keep your legacy.
  • Not a day goes by that I do not cry my eyes out because I miss you so much. I feel so alone. I want to talk to you one more time.
  • I love you dearly. I am utterly heartbroken that you are gone forever; it is so hard to face reality. Goodbye. My heart bleeds.

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These quotes for mom in heaven could also ease the pain of losing a loved one.

  • Grief is like the ocean; it comes in waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim - Vicki Harrison.
  • Those we love and lose are always connected by heartstrings into infinity - Terri Guillemets.
  • Unable are the loved to die, for love is immortality - Emily Dickinson.
  • You don't go around grieving all the time, but the grief is still there and always will be - Nigella Lawson.
  • There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart - Mahatma Gandhi.
  • What we have once enjoyed deeply, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us - Helen Keller.

Poems as a tribute to my mother at her funeral

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Poems can also be an ideal option to pay tribute to a friend's mother who passed away. Here are examples of such poems . You can use them to express the feelings and emotions during this hard time.

If roses grow in heaven,

Lord, please pick a bunch for me,

Place them in my Mother’s arms

and tell her they’re from me.

Tell her I love her and miss her,

and when she turns to smile,

place a kiss upon her cheek

and hold her for a while.

Because remembering her is easy,

I do it every day,

but there’s an ache within my heart

that will never go away.

You may have tangible wealth untold;

Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.

Richer than I, you can never be

I had a mother who read to me.

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If there are any heavens, my mother will (all by herself) have one.

It will not be a pansy heaven nor

a fragile heaven of lilies-of-the-valley but

it will be a heaven of black, red roses my father will be

(deep like a rose tall like a rose)

standing near me (swaying over her silence) with eyes which are really petals and see

nothing with the face of a poet really which

is a flower and not a face with hands that whisper

This is my beloved my

(suddenly in sunlight, he will bow,

and the whole garden will bow)

If I were hanged on the highest hill,

Mother o’ mine, O mother o’ mine!

I know whose love would follow me still,

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If I were drowned in the deepest sea,

I know whose tears would come down to me,

If I were damned of body and soul,

I know whose prayers would make me whole,

God made a wonderful mother,

A mother who never grows old;

He made her smile at the sunshine.

And He moulded her heart of pure gold;

In her eyes, He placed bright shining stars,

In her cheeks fair roses you see;

And He gave that dear mother to me.

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How to Write a Tribute to a Mother Who Passed Away

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Writing a tribute to a mother who passed away is a bittersweet task. The loss itself creates a heaviness in your heart that seems unbearable, yet the act of remembering her results in a joy that is profound. 

Mothers are the most special people in the world. They embody the grace and wisdom needed to succeed at humanity’s most important role. No one shows the kind of unconditional love that our mothers display for us.

That’s why, when we pay them tribute, we must do it in a memorable, respectful, and beautiful way. To offer the very best tribute to a mother proves that we are honoring the most highly regarded person in our lives.

Still, it’s not an easy thing to do. Writing is hard enough, and few of us have much experience writing a tribute. It’s even more difficult when you’re experiencing the emotions that come after the passing of a loved one.

So here is our guide on how to write a tribute to a beloved mother. We hope this resource serves you well.

Tribute vs Eulogy: What’s the Difference?

A tribute is a respectful speech that honors an individual. It can be given after their death, but it can also be spoken in honor of someone who is still living, possibly even in the room.

A eulogy is a very specific type of tribute that is given at a funeral. It tells the decedent’s life story and tries to give a sense of what they meant to those closest to them, and to the world.

Typically only one eulogy is given at a funeral. But what if there are more people who want to say something in their memory? This is where a tribute speech comes in.

In this sense, a tribute is often shorter than a eulogy, sometimes just a quote, a brief heartfelt paragraph, or a single story that the person wants to tell. These tributes still contribute to the overall tapestry of her life story and legacy.

How to Write a Tribute to Mom

You probably knew your mother better than anyone. Be confident that your personal memories are accurate and worthy of being told. You can always consult with family members to help you recall the stories of your mother that you all shared.

When telling your mother’s life story, it’s important that you present information in chronological order. Begin with the place and date of birth and move forward from there. This makes the narrative easy to follow.

Keep in mind that it’s not necessary to include every detail of her life. Ask yourself which moments were the most meaningful.

And don’t forget to use transition words or phrases when moving from one event to another. This will provide further clarity overall. 

Below, we’ve provided 10 things you could feature when writing a tribute to your mother. If you include everything below, it will be very similar to a traditional eulogy.

As you write your tribute speech, you can utilize any number of these features until you’ve composed exactly what you want to say.

1. Introduction

To start, introduce yourself to the congregation, especially if there are some guests who don’t know you. For example, “Thank you for being here today. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is ____________ and I am _______________’s eldest daughter/son.”

If you feel that the standard introduction is not necessary, you could start the eulogy with an anecdote instead. This is a great way to grab the attention of the audience and create interest. Recall a touching or funny incident you shared with your mother. This should be a moment that was brief but memorable, conveying the personality of your mom.

2. Life Details

After the introduction, identify some basic information about your mother. This includes when and where she was born, where she went to school, and details about her professional and family life.

3. Include Both Ups and Downs

Identify struggles and triumphs along her personal journey. All of these things are important parts of her life story.

4. Help the Audience Relate

Because no one is immune to struggles, this is an opportunity to connect with the audience and make your mother relatable. Equally so, it’s an opportunity to let her successes shine!

5. Let Mom’s Unique Personality Shine

Identify special qualities or characteristics your mother possessed. Include specific examples if you can.

6. Mention Personal Interests

Describe your mother’s goals, talents, hobbies, and passions.

7. Communicate Her Faith

If religious, describe and give examples of her faith. Quote her favorite Bible verse or Psalm if you’d like, or one of these beloved funeral Scripture passages .

8. Tell a Story

Describe a favorite story that you or someone shared with your mother. These could be moments that were touching or funny. Whichever the case, they should be instances that revealed something about her character.

9. Share a Life Lesson

Consider what you and others have learned from your mom. Reflect upon how she has helped or impacted your life or the lives of others.

10. Celebrate Her Legacy

As you conclude the tribute, think about the overall legacy your mother is leaving behind. For what would you like her to be remembered? This is your final moment to leave something for your audience to remember.

Short Memorial Quotes for Mom

Here are some brief quotes to help inspire you as you craft the perfect tribute.

1. Motherhood exists in one’s ability to show strength in the face of hardship, tenderness in the presence of sorrow, and joy in the midst of celebration.

2. “Hold dear to your parents, for it is a scary and confusing world without them.” — Emily Dickinson

3. “I remember my mother’s prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life.” — Abraham Lincoln

4. “My mother had a slender, small body, but a large heart – a heart so large that everybody’s joys found welcome in it, and hospitable accommodation.” — Mark Twain

5. “Hear, my son, your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching;” — Proverbs 1:8

6. “Whatever else is unsure in this stinking dunghill of a world, a mother’s love is not.” — James Joyce

7. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.” — Rudyard Kipling

8. “Motherhood: All love begins and ends there.” — Robert Browning

9. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.” — Princess Diana

10. “A mother’s arms are made of tenderness, and children sleep soundly in them.” — Victor Hugo

More inspiration: 21 Best Funeral Songs In Memory of Mom

Examples of Tributes to Mom

May these example tributes inspire you to honor your mother in a very special way. Feel free to borrow and adapt the sentiments below as you craft your own tribute to mom.

Short Tribute to a Mother Who Passed Away

As I reflect upon my mother’s life, I know she will be remembered as a caring and generous person to her family and friends. I also realize the weight of the legacy she leaves behind. It is a legacy of strength, perseverance, and optimism amid a difficult journey.

She taught her children that through education and hard work, a life can be transformed. She encouraged us to be strong in our convictions and keep reaching for the stars. She is an inspiration to us all and an example of the very simple notion that the stars – our hopes and dreams – can be reached.

Emotional Tribute to a Mother Who Passed Away

Aside from all the treasured memories that my mother left behind, which allow us to hold her forever near, she also leaves behind a legacy of teaching her children what is most important in life.

She taught us to never be afraid of the world, to reach out to people, and to try new things. She was a wonderful example of empathy, especially when showing compassion for others who were struggling.

My mother’s love for life propelled her forward, which undoubtedly contributed to her long and fulfilling life. I know that she will continue to guide me as I continue my own life’s journey.

Though my mother may be gone, she will never be forgotten. Her memory and legacy will live on as we do, in our hearts, in our minds, and in our souls. I love you, Mom.

Christian Tribute to a Mother Who Passed Away

Though my mother’s highest accomplishment was her family, her greatest relationship was with God. She looked everything through eyes of faith, yet in all simplicity. She lived her life according to His word and found comfort in prayer, focusing special attention on seeking intercession and guidance along the way.

She did not bother to sully this relationship by allowing the influence of society to complicate it. She did not need proof that what she practiced was the truth because she was content in pondering the beautiful mysteries that were her faith. If we breathe new life into this lesson of faith, if we incorporate it into our own lives, then we carry on her legacy and give her reason to smile.

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In Memory of My Mother Who Passed Away

My mother’s tenderness will be seen in the memories of her grandkids, and her compassion for others will be embraced by those she helped and the friends who witnessed.

Her sense of humor will be heard as we recall the echo of her laughter or visualize the outline of her smile.

Maybe, in the whisper of a faint autumn breeze, we’ll hear her voice and remember the lessons she upheld that warrant an honor well deserved.

Rest in peace, my sweet mother. You will be missed.

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Words for Someone Who Lost Their Mother

1. Words cannot capture all that your mother meant to me.

2. Your mother’s accomplishments will live on in the stories told by generations to come. 

3. I’ll always remember her for her strength, her beauty, and her ever-comforting encouragement. 

4. Though my heart aches at this loss alongside you, at the same time I rejoice for the privilege of having known her.

5. We will live out your mother’s example as a testimony and tribute to her.

More: 50 Best Sympathy Messages & Quotes for Loss of Mother

When Writing a Tribute Is Just Too Much

If you’re struggling to put into words all that your mother meant to you, a professional eulogy writer can help ease the burden and produce something you’ll be proud to read.

As the writer behind In Tribute Eulogy Services , I help provide a fast and easy way to personalize the perfect eulogy to honor your mother. Visit the website to learn more about how I can help with your tribute.

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Margaret spent seventeen years as an English and Writing teacher before venturing into the funeral industry as a writer. She has been writing articles for US Urns Online since the summer of 2022. Margaret loves tackling subjects that help others navigate through the difficulties of grief.

After losing three close family members in less than four years and having to endure the difficult task of writing a eulogy for each, she considered assisting others through grief by helping them pay tribute with a beautiful memorial speech. As a result, she started her own eulogy writing business.

Her niche is unique because it offers others something that they might not have considered otherwise. For people enduring loss, it’s usually hard to set aside emotions to focus upon capturing life in a celebratory way. Margaret uses her personal experience with grief to practice empathy, making the process of creating a beautiful eulogy easy for her clients.

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A Tribute Speech is a profound way to honor and celebrate an individual’s impact or a significant event. This comprehensive guide, filled with eloquent speech examples, offers step-by-step instructions on crafting a moving and memorable tribute. Whether honoring a colleague, a loved one, or a notable figure, these guidelines will help you convey your admiration and respect powerfully. Learn to express heartfelt emotions and share impactful stories that do justice to the person or occasion being commemorated.

What is Tribute Speech?

A tribute speech is a specific type of commemorative address dedicated to expressing honor, admiration, and respect towards a person, event, thing, or idea. It is crafted to celebrate and acknowledge the significance and impact of its subject. Typically, tribute speeches highlight the exceptional qualities of the honored subject and reflect on their profound influence.

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A tribute speech is one of the most personal and emotional speech. Because it talks about the life of a particular person or a group of people. It is a speech that will inspire others and make the listeners come together as one in commemorating and honoring the life of the subject.A tribute speech is not only given to a deceased person, in fact, it is also given to a living person who still manages to give contribution or service, doing remarkable things, and still inspire and influence others. The best speeches are ones that are honest, sincere, full of admiration, and has a good speech outline .

Tribute Speech Format

Introduction Good evening, everyone. We are gathered here today not just to celebrate an extraordinary career but to honor a life that has made a profound difference. I’m here to speak about Dr. Jane Thompson, a person whose contributions have not only advanced the field of environmental science but have also inspired a generation to live more conscientiously. Body Early Life and Background Born in a small coastal town, Jane was always fascinated by the ocean. Her early years, spent volunteering at marine sanctuaries, laid the foundation for a lifelong commitment to environmental conservation. Despite facing early challenges, including limited access to advanced education and resources, Jane’s determination led her to earn a scholarship to a prestigious university, where she began her journey to becoming the influential figure we admire today. Achievements and Contributions Professionally, Dr. Thompson’s work has been groundbreaking. Her research on coral reef preservation has not only won her numerous international awards but has also played a critical role in developing sustainable marine practices worldwide. However, Jane’s impact extends beyond her professional achievements. She founded the Green Future Initiative, a nonprofit organization dedicated to educating young people about environmental stewardship, demonstrating her belief that real change begins with education. Personal Stories I remember a time when Jane organized a community clean-up. It wasn’t just about cleaning; it was about bringing people together, sharing knowledge, and fostering a sense of community responsibility towards our environment. Her enthusiasm was infectious, and her genuine care for both people and the planet was evident in everything she did. Conclusion As we reflect on Dr. Thompson’s contributions, it’s clear that her legacy is not just in her scientific achievements but in the hearts and minds she has touched. Jane once said, “Change is the collective sum of our actions.” Today, we not only celebrate her remarkable contributions but also commit to continuing her legacy through our actions. In closing, I’d like to express our deepest gratitude to Dr. Jane Thompson for her unwavering dedication, inspiring leadership, and compassionate heart. Thank you, Jane, for showing us the way forward

Tribute Speech Example

Ladies and Gentlemen , Good [morning/afternoon/evening], Thank you all for being here today as we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Loved One’s Name]. I am [Your Name], and it is both a privilege and a deeply emotional task to stand before you and share my thoughts about someone who meant so much to all of us. [Loved One’s Name] was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of everyone they met. They were a loving [relationship, e.g., parent, sibling, friend], a cherished member of our community, and a source of joy and inspiration to all who knew them. One of my fondest memories of [Loved One’s Name] is [share a specific memory, such as a shared activity, a special trip, or a meaningful conversation]. Their ability to [describe a characteristic, such as make people laugh, bring people together, offer wise counsel] made every moment we spent together truly special. [Loved One’s Name] had a unique gift for making everyone feel valued and loved. [Loved One’s Name] was a person of immense strength and character. They faced life’s challenges with resilience and grace, never losing sight of what was truly important. They taught us the value of perseverance, the importance of kindness, and the power of a positive outlook. What I will always cherish about [Loved One’s Name] is their unwavering kindness and generosity. They had a heart of gold and were always willing to lend a helping hand, offer a listening ear, or provide words of encouragement. Their selflessness touched many lives and left a lasting impact on our hearts. [Loved One’s Name] was also a person of great wisdom and insight. They were always there to offer advice, to listen, and to provide a different perspective. Their counsel was invaluable, and we all knew that we could always count on them for guidance and support. As I stand here today, I am filled with gratitude for the time we had together. While I wish we could have had more time, I am comforted by the countless memories we created and the lessons they taught us. Their legacy lives on in the values they instilled in us, in the love they showed to our family and friends, and in the positive impact they had on everyone who knew them. [Loved One’s Name], thank you for being a beacon of love, wisdom, and strength. Thank you for the laughter, the lessons, and the countless memories. We will carry your memory in our hearts forever and strive to honor you in all that we do. In closing, I would like to share a quote that reminds me of [Loved One’s Name]: “Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day.” [Loved One’s Name], your love and your legacy will live on in all of us. Thank you for everything. Thank you, everyone, for being here today to honor [Loved One’s Name]. [Your Name]

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Ladies and Gentlemen , Good [morning/afternoon/evening], Thank you all for being here today as we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Loved One’s Name]. I am [Your Name], and it is both a privilege and an emotional task to share a few words about someone who meant so much to all of us. [Loved One’s Name] was a remarkable person who touched the lives of everyone they met. They were a loving [relationship, e.g., parent, sibling, friend] and a cherished member of our community. Their kindness, strength, and unwavering love made a profound impact on all of us. One of my fondest memories of [Loved One’s Name] is [share a specific, brief memory, such as a shared activity or meaningful moment]. Their ability to [describe a characteristic, such as make people laugh, bring people together] made every moment we spent together truly special. [Loved One’s Name] faced life’s challenges with resilience and grace, teaching us the value of perseverance and the importance of kindness. Their wisdom and generosity left a lasting impression on our hearts. As I stand here today, I am filled with gratitude for the time we had together. Though I wish we could have had more time, I am comforted by the memories we created and the lessons they taught us. Their legacy lives on in the values they instilled in us and the love they shared. In closing, I would like to share a quote that reminds me of [Loved One’s Name]: “Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day.” [Loved One’s Name], your love and legacy will live on in all of us. Thank you for everything. Thank you, everyone, for being here today to honor [Loved One’s Name]. [Your Name]

Tips for Delivering a Tribute Speech

  • Practice Thoroughly: Familiarize yourself with your speech through repeated practice. This helps reduce nervousness and ensures a smoother delivery.
  • Speak from the Heart: Authenticity resonates. Speak sincerely about your feelings and experiences related to the honoree. Authentic emotion is compelling and engaging.
  • Maintain Eye Contact: Make eye contact with your audience to create a connection. This helps convey your sincerity and enhances the impact of your words.
  • Use Notes Sparingly: If you use notes, glance at them briefly to jog your memory, but try to keep your attention on the audience. Over-reliance on notes can disconnect you from the emotional depth of your speech.
  • Control Your Pace: Nervousness can lead to speaking too quickly, which might make it hard for your audience to follow. Practice pacing your speech so it’s easy to listen to and digest.
  • Pause for Emphasis: Use pauses strategically to let important points sink in or to compose yourself if you become emotional. Pauses can be powerful in adding weight to your message.
  • Use an Appropriate Tone: The tone of your speech should match the occasion and the personality of the honoree. Whether it’s solemn, celebratory, or humorous, ensure it’s appropriate.
  • Manage Emotions: It’s okay to show emotion, as it underscores the sincerity of your tribute. However, if you’re worried about becoming too overwhelmed, find techniques to compose yourself, like focusing on a spot in the room or taking deep breaths.
  • Personalize Your Delivery: Include personal anecdotes or traits of the honoree that you admire. This personal touch can make your speech more relatable and memorable.
  • Conclude Strongly: End your speech with a powerful statement or a call to action inspired by the honoree’s life and achievements. This leaves your audience with a lasting impression.
  • Rehearse with Feedback: Practice your speech in front of friends or family members who can provide constructive feedback. This can help you refine your delivery and content.
  • Be Prepared for the Unexpected: Sometimes emotions can catch you by surprise, or the audience might react in ways you didn’t anticipate. Be prepared to adapt and continue gracefully.

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How to write a Tribute Speech

Step 1: choose your focus.

  • Select the Person: Clearly define who you are honoring. It could be a friend, family member, colleague, or a public figure.
  • Determine the Purpose: Understand the occasion and what you aim to achieve with your speech—celebrate their life, highlight their accomplishments, or honor their memory.

Step 2: Gather Information

  • Research: Collect information about their life, achievements, and impact. This may involve speaking with friends and family, looking at their social media, or recalling personal memories.
  • Select Key Points: Identify the most significant aspects of their life and work that you want to highlight. These should reflect their values, contributions, and the difference they made.

Step 3: Organize Your Speech

  • Follow the tribute speech format outlined previously, organizing your speech into an introduction, body, and conclusion. Within this structure, decide how you will present the information (chronologically, thematically, etc.).

Step 4: Write the Introduction

  • Hook: Begin with a powerful opening to grab attention. This could be a quote, an anecdote, or a profound statement.
  • Purpose: State the purpose of your speech and briefly introduce the person you’re honoring.

Step 5: Develop the Body

  • Early Life and Background: Start with some background information that provides context to their life and achievements.
  • Achievements and Contributions: Highlight their professional and personal accomplishments, focusing on how they’ve impacted others.
  • Personal Stories: Share anecdotes and personal stories that showcase their character and the personal side that people admired.

Step 6: Craft the Conclusion

  • Summarize: Briefly recap the key points you’ve made throughout your speech.
  • Reflect: Offer a reflection on their legacy and what they mean to you and others.
  • End with a Tribute: Conclude with a heartfelt tribute, expressing gratitude, admiration, or a final farewell.

Step 7: Edit and Practice

  • Review and Refine: Read through your speech, making adjustments to ensure clarity, flow, and emotional impact. Aim for a tone that matches the occasion and your relationship with the honoree.
  • Practice: Rehearse your speech multiple times. This helps with memorization, timing, and delivery. Pay attention to your pacing, tone, and body language.

The Impact of Tribute Speeches

  • Emotional Healing: Tribute speeches can offer comfort and emotional healing to those grieving by celebrating the life and accomplishments of the deceased, helping to focus on positive memories and legacies.
  • Increased Appreciation: They heighten the audience’s appreciation for the honoree’s contributions, achievements, and character, often revealing aspects of their life and work that were not widely known.
  • Preservation of Legacy: Tribute speeches serve to preserve and honor the legacy of an individual, ensuring that their contributions and values are remembered and passed down through generations.
  • Motivation and Inspiration: Hearing about the challenges overcome and achievements made by the honoree can motivate and inspire others to pursue their own goals with greater determination and passion.
  • Strengthened Community Bonds: They can strengthen bonds within a community or organization by bringing people together to celebrate and reflect on the values and achievements of one of their own.
  • Public Recognition: Tribute speeches provide a platform for public acknowledgment of an individual’s contributions, offering a sense of validation and recognition for their hard work and dedication.
  • Encouragement of Similar Values: By highlighting the honoree’s virtues, tribute speeches can encourage others to emulate similar values in their own lives, such as kindness, perseverance, and excellence.
  • Catharsis for the Speaker: The process of writing and delivering a tribute speech can offer a cathartic experience for the speaker, allowing them to process their feelings and articulate their admiration or love.
  • Enhanced Historical Record: These speeches can enhance the historical record of an individual’s contributions, especially in cases where their work has had a significant impact on society or a specific field.
  • Promotion of Unity: In moments of collective grief or celebration, tribute speeches can promote a sense of unity and shared purpose among those in attendance.
  • Cultural and Social Reflection: They reflect the cultural and social values of the time, providing insight into what a community or society values in its members.
  • Educational Impact: Tribute speeches can have an educational impact, teaching the audience about the honoree’s field of work, their approach to challenges, and the impact of their achievements.

Purpose of Tribute Speech

  • To Honor: The primary purpose is to pay homage to the person being recognized, acknowledging their contributions, achievements, and the positive impact they have made on others.
  • To Celebrate: Tribute speeches are used to celebrate milestones, such as retirements, birthdays, or significant achievements, highlighting the reasons these milestones are noteworthy.
  • To Inspire: By sharing stories of the honoree’s challenges, perseverance, and successes, a tribute speech can inspire others to strive for excellence and pursue their goals with determination.
  • To Express Gratitude: It’s an opportunity to thank the individual for their contributions, whether to a community, an organization, or in a personal capacity, acknowledging their efforts and the difference they’ve made.
  • To Educate: Through detailing the honoree’s life, work, and philosophy, the speech can educate the audience about values such as resilience, dedication, and compassion, and about the honoree’s field of work or influence.
  • To Reflect: It allows the speaker and the audience to reflect on the qualities and actions that make the honoree’s life exemplary and how these can influence their own lives.
  • To Preserve Memory: In cases of posthumous tributes, the speech serves to preserve the memory of the deceased, ensuring their legacy continues to be remembered and celebrated by future generations.
  • To Connect: A tribute speech can foster a sense of connection among the audience, uniting them in their shared admiration or affection for the honoree, and in shared values or experiences.
  • To Heal: Particularly in memorial services, tribute speeches can offer comfort and healing by celebrating the life of the deceased, providing solace through remembrance and shared grief.
  • To Motivate: By highlighting the honoree’s contributions and achievements, the speech can motivate others to contribute positively to their communities or fields of work, encouraging them to make a difference.

Occasions That Call for a Tribute Speech

A tribute speech is common in funerals and memorial services. However, a tribute speech can be given at various occasions.

1. Reunions

A thank you speech can be given to honor the senior member of a family in a family reunion. In class reunion or other forms of reunion, a tribute speech is given to a person who has achieved a lot in his/her life.

2. Anniversaries

A tribute speech is given to the one celebrating an anniversary or this could be a celebration marking a historic event such as a day to remember the passing of a famous person. You may also like thank-you speech examples & samples.

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Begin a tribute message with a personal greeting or a poignant quote, followed by an introduction that sets the tone, such as expressing the significance of the person being honored and your relationship to them.

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The central idea of a tribute speech revolves around celebrating, honoring, and remembering the life, achievements, and influence of an individual. It’s about acknowledging their contributions and expressing gratitude and respect.

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Start a speech with a powerful opening that captures the audience’s attention, such as an intriguing question, a surprising fact, a relatable anecdote, or a compelling quote that ties into your speech’s main theme.

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To write a heart-touching tribute, share personal stories and anecdotes that highlight the honoree’s virtues, impact, and the memories you shared. Use sincere and emotive language to express your admiration and gratitude deeply.

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A short tribute speech should concisely highlight the individual’s key achievements, character traits, and impact on others. Begin with a brief introduction, include memorable anecdotes, and conclude with a heartfelt expression of gratitude or respect.

What Type of Speech Is a Tribute?

A tribute speech is a ceremonial speech that honors and commemorates the life and contributions of an individual. It is characterized by its focus on praising, remembering, and expressing admiration and gratitude towards the person being honored.

How long should a tribute speech be?

A tribute speech should be 5-10 minutes long, depending on the occasion and audience.

Can I use humor in a tribute speech?

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How do I conclude a tribute speech?

Conclude with a memorable closing statement, summarizing the person’s impact and expressing gratitude.

What tone should I use in a tribute speech?

Use a respectful, heartfelt, and positive tone to convey sincerity and admiration.

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Eulogy for a mother from a daughter

5 short heartfelt example eulogies from daughters for their mothers

Contributed by: Aimee, Denver, Colorado, USA | Deborah, Liverpool, UK |Anne-Marie, San Francisco, USA |Kristy Bell, Perth, Australia |Michelle Seraco, Kennsaw, Georgia, USA

Here are five short, sincere eulogies for mothers from their daughters. They've been contributed by their writers to help and inspire other women: daughters who have a eulogy to write for their mothers and want to see what others done before beginning on their own. 

As you read, imagine you are hearing them as if the writer was talking to you directly. Do that, and you'll feel the genuine, deep, appreciative love these daughters have for their mothers.

  • My Mother's eulogy - a short, strong, sincere speech full of admiration and love
  • Eulogy for my Mother, Muriel - a eulogy filled with touching personal stories to illustrate a life lived well
  • Eulogy for Mom from her daughter Anne-Marie - a beautiful short eulogy for an inspiring woman who battled with cancer for the last few years of her life.
  • Eulogy for her Mother from her daughter, Kristy - a short, very loving eulogy that has helped and inspired thousands of visitors since it's been online.
  • Michelle's eulogy for her Mother, Karen - a great example of how to write a respectful, honest and loving eulogy for a person who struggled with addictive issues. 

A eulogy for my mother from her daughter, Aimee

Aimee, whose mother loved to talk and had an open-door policy for everyone in her neighborhood, has deliberately kept her eulogy short.

The deep respect, admiration and love she had for her, and how she lived her life comes shining through, loud and clear.

You'll see from the number of comments it's received from readers how helpful it's been for them.

Here is her speech.

My Mother's eulogy

I feel as though I could write a book regarding my mother’s life so I will do my best to make this brief.

My mother was a very sensitive and compassionate person. She loved her family, friends, colleagues, clients and students very deeply.

Sometimes she stuck her nose into things that were none of her business, but I know her motives were never malicious.

Image-two women talking. Text Quote: She had the gift of the gab and somehow was able to have complete strangers share their life story with her.

She had the gift of gab and somehow was able to have complete strangers share their life story with her within their very first conversations. She truly had a compassionate, open heart.

I remember the days when we lived on Locust and our whole neighborhood was like family. Mom had an open-door policy whether it was the neighbors walking in for sugar or eggs, or the neighborhood kids coming to her for advice and shelter.

She always loved the children – including her brothers, sisters, cousins, nieces, nephews and her grandchildren. And I believe as the oldest she felt the need to take care of everyone though it was not always her responsibility.

I don’t know how she managed to raise a family, return to college and receive a double major and double minor, still cook for us, and show up to all our activities. She exposed us to diverse experiences including sports, the arts, and a world of possibilities.

We were taught strong values and the importance of family, faith, hard work, kindness, tolerance, generosity, forgiveness and love. She was a strong woman, stubborn, gentle but direct and had an amazing sense of humor.

The last three or four years were hard for mom with the return of her breast cancer and the other illnesses she coped with. I know she is at peace now.

Image: couple sitting on bench seat enjoying the sunset. Quote: June 7th would have marked our parent's 50th wedding anniversary. I treasure all the loving memories and exchanges they shared.

June 7th would have marked my parent's 50th Wedding Anniversary and we know love and marriage is not always an easy commitment. I treasure all the wonderful loving memories and exchanges they shared.

We have lost many family members and friends over the years, especially in the last few, but I am comforted by the fact mom is in heaven sharing her gift of gab and continuing her legacy of sticking her nose in everyone’s business.

I hope and pray our generation can continue the passion and love of family you all have shared with us.

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Comments on Aimee's eulogy for her Mother 

Aimee's eulogy for her strong, vibrant, loving mother has attracted many comments from grateful readers. Here's a sampling of what they had to say:

Lynley says : "Like many other have said, I did not know where to start with all the great memories that my mother has left behind. This has really helped me. Thank you and may God strengthen and keep you during this time of loss."

Heather says : "My mom died on 15th October, and it's been so hard on me. Reading your eulogy has given me the strength to write mine. Thank you."

Penny says : "Thank you, for sharing your writing with all of us. You never wanna be in position where you have to write on behalf of a loved one's death. It's not only hard when faced with a tragedy but then planning your mother's funeral and given a couple days to sum up their beautiful life on a single piece of paper...Like I said, it's hard.

So, thank you for helping me figure out how to at least start it. I can stop staring at this blank piece of paper now. Truly inspiring. Thank you!"

Jacqui says : "Beautifully written. I have just lost my Mum on the 7th of June and your words have inspired me immensely. Not knowing where to start, I now feel like I can put pen to paper. Thank you so much for sharing this. Thank you for kick starting my heartful thoughts."

Bridie says : "Hi there, your writing helped to break through the blank page syndrome. I took some of your structure and ideas, then re- wrote it to suit my style. Finally, this is off the launch pad. I was stuck for a long time.  I am so grateful. Thanks again."

Jennifer says : "Thanks for sharing. I found your eulogy and it is very helpful. I was having a hard time gathering the facts to write my Mum's until I found yours. I am able to write something now."

Julie says : "My husband is trying to write a eulogy for his mother and was finding it so hard until I found this. We're both in tears.  Thank you for sharing. It really has helped."

Robin says : "Thank you for sharing your thoughts.  My Mom passed away a month ago, and we are having a memorial service for her next week. I promised to write her eulogy, but honestly, sitting down and typing out my thoughts and the stories her friends and family members have shared with me just feels like losing her all over again. I have dragged my feet on this, so your words for your mother's eulogy are a huge help. Bless you!"

Liz says : " Just a note to say thank you. Your eulogy inspired my siblings and me to write our own mother's eulogy. Our mom passed away last Friday morning. She was diagnosed with Alzheimer's and a rough road followed. For the last two weeks of her life, she was in a hospice.

Despite how much preparation and how ready you think you are for the imminent death of your mom, it really stung when she actually passed.  We, in fact, were not ready for the blow. Take care."

Tara says: "Thank you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is hard to lose anyone, but I found it very devastating losing my mother."

Carrie says : "My mother is currently in a hospice, and I find myself preparing for the inevitable. I found such power and strength in your writing that I merely wanted to say thank you."

Barbara says : "Thank you for sharing your eulogy with us. It is a source of inspiration to me in writing the eulogy of my aunt. It sure does help."

Aimee says : Susan just shared with me that she posted my eulogy for my mother whom we lost almost 16 years ago. Thank you, Susan for publishing and thank you everyone for all your nice & wonderful comments. My thoughts are with all of you, losing our parents is very tough! I am glad that my eulogy has helped others!

And Susan says in response to Aimee's comment : This comment came about because I emailed Aimee to let her know I'd updated the page her eulogy for her mother was on, and to share how helpful it continues to be. 

Would you like to comment on this eulogy, or on any of the others on this page?

To add a comment, please submit what you want to say through the submission form on my about me page. Be sure to tell me which eulogy you are commenting on, so I know where to post it. Thank you.

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Eulogy for my mother Muriel

Deborah from Liverpool, UK, contributed this short eulogy for her mother filled with personal memories. She's called it: Muriel - The Morning Room. You'll understand why once you read it. 

Eulogy for Muriel - The Morning Room

Muriel - Liverpool, UK

We all know Mum, Grandma, Muriel, Mu, Moey in different ways and have our own special memories.

In preparing what to say in this eulogy I remembered a conversation we had about this time last year.

Mum had been to the hospital for one of her appointments and this time she was reunited with a big stack of her medical records going back to the 1960s. The nurses had found the archive of notes fascinating.

Living a full life

But in our chat Mum said she felt really strongly that she didn’t want to be defined by that stack of medical records.

She said to me, “I’ve lived a full life. Next time I go in I want to take some pictures with me to show the nurses that I’ve really lived and what I’ve done over the past fifty years.”

So that’s what I’m going to help Mum show you – through some of my memories about her full life.

Sewing & making things in the morning room

When I think about family time with Mum I think about the Morning Room at home. This is where everything happened and where the sewing machine lived. Mum was brilliant at making things and the sewing machine was a big part of that.

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I have to mention the Morning Room curtains. Growing up in the 70's they were regularly changing.

Mum would get a remnant of bright bold material from the market and quickly run up a new pair of curtains. Then after what seemed like just a few months later, she’d do the same again.

It was the same with clothes. Collette and I would show her fashion sketches in Jackie magazine and next day Mum would run up a trendy new gypsy skirt or dress for us on her sewing machine.

In the Morning Room we also made lots of ‘ Blue Peter ’ * style things together - anything from fluffy gonks through to a toy made out of a margarine tub and cotton reels. Mum made family life fun, and she was very creative.

( * A British children's TV show and the longest running one in the world.)

Night classes, sugar craft and teaching

As a teenager I remember going to night school classes together. Mum did flower arranging while I was next door doing woodwork. She loved flowers and for many years she was one of the volunteers on the flower roster doing arrangements in this church, ably supported by Dad.

That brings me to the other thing that used to happen in the Morning Room, cake decorating.

Following the flower arranging classes Mum went on to take lessons in how to make sugar paste flowers. This led to her entering exhibitions with her classmates. Then her friends and family managed to persuade her to share her skills and teach sugar craft and cake making.

I was so proud when Mum did this especially when she told me stories of how she handled some of the cheeky young lads at catering school while teacher training.

I know she was chuffed to bits to be working and she made lots of good friends.

Image: sugar craft- white roses on wedding cake. Quote: She was very talented in her craft and enjoyed making sugar flowers very much.

She was very talented in her craft and enjoyed making sugar flowers very much.

I remember the night before Collette and John’s wedding she stayed up all through the night making beautiful delicate sugar paste bluebells for their cake. I scolded her in the morning for not getting any sleep and she simply said, “I don’t care, I’ve enjoyed myself.”

So, I hope you will agree with Mum that she lived a very full life and enjoyed herself, and you will remember her that way, as she wanted you to.

Comments about Deborah's eulogy for her mother

When I, ( Susan ), received Deborah's eulogy for her mother I thanked for sharing her Mum and the magic of her Morning Room with us. And I agreed with her, saying "...people are always much more than a stack of historical file notes."

Jen echoed that. She said: "Hi Deborah, How lovely to remind us all of the well-lived life, the joy of craft and doing things together and to not let the illness of their last months/years define them."

Eulogy for Mom from her daughter Anne-Marie

Ann-Marie's beautiful eulogy for her mother Mary celebrates her life of selfless love and service. In it she shares her deep, heartfelt gratitude for being her daughter and tells us how her mother has shaped her life.

Eulogy for Mom

My mom Mary

A mother and child connection is so utterly profound. How can the limitations of language ever do this archetypal relationship justice?

It feels almost impossible to put words to the love I feel for my mother, but I will try.

Gratitude for time spent together

I have tremendous gratitude for past five years because I was able to spend time with my mother since she was first diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. We were very open with one another - sharing our feelings; laughter, tears, and, some bickering here and there. The conversations and closure we were able to have were a gift. I will miss her forever.

Beauty, peace and tranquility in death

In my mother’s life there was hardship, but also huge blessings.

My mother's death, as is often the case, was similar to her life as a whole in this way. It was an invaluable experience to have been by her side, along with my family, through her final days and nights.

I am amazed when I recollect the bright, warm, large look in her hazel-colored eyes after she was told she did not have much time left.

Image: golden clouds and blue sky with quote: Yet in her final moments the peace and tranquility that came over my mom's face was breathtaking.

You see, as my mother began to pass away, I thought maybe she didn't want to go. For, she was a fighter and her incredible tenacity had showed up in her strong will to live with this terrible disease these last five years.

Yet in her final moments the peace and tranquility that came over my mom’s face was breathtaking.

She was beautiful and as glorious as an angel as she smiled and transitioned out of this world and into the next. For sure she had agreed to pass on.  By the ecstatic look on her face I rest knowing mom was greeted by her loved ones who went before her.

Our tight bond despite our differences

My mother Mary was 32 when she gave birth to me. Younger than I am now.

Her own mother died while she was pregnant with me, and I imagine that tragedy must have played a role in our tight bond. I always felt close to my mother. But our relationship was a paradox.

On the surface the way we have lived our lives may seem contrary. However, in spite of traditional and generational differences, our core strengths and beliefs were so congruent; and it was the spirit with which my mother imparted her love that transcended all our differences.

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My mother’s core motivating force was LOVE and it was her love that has had a profound impact on the essence of who I am. My mother lives on in my heart.

She gave me the foundation on which my whole life is built. A calling to live a life of service and to help make the world a better place. This is the greatest lesson my mother taught me; how to be caring, affectionate, forgiving, and empathetic towards others, especially those in need.

My mother exemplified service, be it to the elders she visited weekly for years in the nursing home, caring for my beloved Aunt Nonie, or her persistent efforts to meet the needs of her own children and grandchildren. I will always feel love and gratitude for the warm gifts she so beautifully embodied.

My mother, Mary, was a force for spreading good in the world, and her legacy - this compelling force of good continues in the many of us here, whose lives she touched.

Responses to Anne-Marie's eulogy for her Mom

There have been many reader responses to Anne-Marie's eulogy for her mother. Here's a few of them.

Mike Dupre wrote: "This seems written for my mom. It's so beautiful. I know your pain as you wrote it and I cry.

I hope I can use a few of your words in my eulogy as I'm not the best writer as I see you are. I need to write it in two days and will go with my heart as I felt you did, reading this.

Love you even though we never met because we are all the same and feel the same. Bless your heart."

I answered him: "Mike, Susan here. Of course you can borrow the words you want. These pages of sample eulogies are here to help. Go well with your writing."

Ken says : "I think it can be difficult for some people to give a eulogy for their parent even though I gave the one for my mother who also died of lung cancer.

A year later my father-in-law passed away, also of lung cancer, and my wife and her brother felt they couldn't give the eulogy, so they provided memories in writing for the person giving his eulogy to share at his memorial service.

My mother-in-law passed away last week (stage 4 cancer), and my wife and brother-in-law again provided memories for the eulogy, someone else delivered.

So, this is an option to consider when you feel it would be to too difficult to deliver the eulogy yourself, is to have someone close to the family give the eulogy, with memories and thoughts that you provide.

I don't know how long ago your loss was, but you have my sympathies."

Maggie says : "Beautifully written. I am going to use a part of this for my Mom's eulogy. Thank you. I am very grateful you decided to share it."

Caroline says : "I absolutely love how you wrote this, and I believe that you were super close with your mom because of the way you wrote, and the effort you put in this eulogy.

I love how you made it really nicely detailed such as descriptions of how your long loving mother fought for her life. I also hope the best for you because of your tragic loss." 

Susie says : "Unlike all of the other comments, my mother wasn't always the nicest to me. I was the youngest and my brother is the oldest. She idolized everything that he did and put him on pedestal. 

So, writing her eulogy is hard. I don't hate her, but my brother is doing nothing, and I am doing it all. Thank you for guiding me back to what a eulogy should be all about. God bless you."

I, Susan, replied: "Susan here. I feel for you. That's a difficult story and it must have taken quite an effort on your part to come to a place of acceptance, where you are able to do what you need to. I am glad you've found something you can use to help here."

Eulogy for a mother from her daughter

Kristy Bell's short, very loving eulogy for her mother has helped and inspired thousands of visitors since it's been online. Many of them have taken the time to say thank you. You'll find those comments below the eulogy.

A daughter's loss of her mother

Tina Anderson

My mother always said that we could be whomever we wanted to be.

She was a person you could really depend on and was a constantly supporting her children no matter if they wanted to climb the tallest mountain or build the biggest block tower.

She was our rock, and she is one lady who will be missed by not only her children, but everyone.

When we were growing up my mother made sure my siblings and I were always taken care of. She would sacrifice her own happiness for ours.

When we were younger, we didn’t understand that, but she was just that type of giving person. As we grew up, we begin to realize Mum was one of the good ones.

Quote: She always said you had to be nice to everyone even if they weren't nice to you because you didn't know what might be going on in their lives.

She always said you had to be nice to everyone even if they weren’t nice to you, because you didn’t know what might be going on in their lives.

I could never understand how she could be so compassionate to people who were not nice to her. That was just the way Mum was. She cared more for everyone else than she did for herself.

You can never get as much time with the ones you love as you think you are owed. We didn't know Mama's time with us was short, but we still enjoyed every second with her. She was just as sweet, supportive, and full of joy as always, right up to the end.

Mum was a light in my life as I am sure she was a light in all of yours. She would give anyone the shirt off her back and go out of her way to help a friend in need.

I remember one time when I was little Mum got a phone call late at night from a friend who lived on the other side of the street. She had fought with her husband and was really upset. Mum dressed us and went out in her nightgown with us to go and console her because Dad was working that night. She would always be there for her friends and family.

There are so many memories of my mother that come to mind so it would be next to impossible for me to pick a favorite.

Quote: When her time was growing short in those last few days, she spent time with each one of us telling us how much we had meant in her life.

When her time was growing short in those last few days, she spent time with each one of us telling us how much we had meant in her life. That will go in my memory bank as one of my favorite times with her. We were lucky to have such a great mother, and even luckier that we were able to spend so much time with her at the end of her life.

Mum is with us today in our hearts. Words can't express how much she meant to me and my family. I know she is watching us and is with us in spirit.

Let us remember Tina Anderson as the carefree and loving person she was and celebrate the life of a great woman as we honor her memory today.

Reader responses to Kristy's eulogy for her mother

Linda says : "This is a beautiful tribute. I recently lost my Mom of 90 years and wondered, how do I sum up her wonderful life? This is a letter of love and I hope I can give my Mom a similar tribute, as you have given your Mom."

Marnie says : " I lost my Mom yesterday and as I sit here and try to write I am at a loss. I hope you don't mind if I use some of your sweet words to honor my mom."

Susan answered: "Please do! That's exactly what they're there for - to help others. Blessings, Susan"

Carol says :  "Thank you so much for your beautiful eulogy. I lost my Mum last Monday. I am so numb, and I can't find the words I need by myself. I hope you don't mind me using some of yours. The center of our world disappears when we lose our Mums. Thank you for such comforting and inspiring words. xx"

Courtney says : "I just lost my mom two days ago. I’m 21 and have three brothers. It was a car accident that took her life and my grandmother's. If it’s okay with you I would like to use some of what you said in my eulogy as well. Thank you for being brave and sharing."

Susan answered: "Of course you may take what you need. We're happy to be of service. Wishing you courage and much love. Blessings, Susan.

Lottie says : "Thank you.  This was both inspiring and helpful to me in writing for my own mother. To all of you who speak - you are so very brave!"

Mike says : "I am sorry for your loss.  I just lost my mother too. You have helped me a lot. I would love you to permit me use some of your eulogy too. You are a source of inspiration."

Sonya says : "My deepest sympathy.  What a lovely eulogy you have written. I too, sadly have this task and it's impossible to summarize all the love my mother showed to us."

Diane says : "I have been given the task of writing my mother's eulogy. Your kind words and wonderful story has lifted my spirits."

Wanda says : "Thank you for this beautiful eulogy. I have the honor, but also the sorrow, of writing my Mother's (online) obituary/eulogy. After reading yours about your Mother, I feel I will be able to do it justice."

Michelle's eulogy for her mother Karen

The last of our example eulogies for a mother from a daughter comes from Michelle Siraco. It's a wonderful example of how to speak honestly, with respect and love, about someone who struggled with drug addiction and won. 

My Mother's legacy

Karen Siraco

Thank you for being here to celebrate the beautiful life of my beloved mother Karen Siraco.

My name is Michelle. I am the twin sister to Danielle and older sister to Austin. My mother had three children, whom she loved with every ounce of her being. She told us we were her greatest gifts.

My mother was born in Canton, Ohio and was the second child born of the four girls. My grandparents, my mother and three aunts grew up for the most part in New Jersey. She attended Westfield Highschool.

The wild child has twins, and then one more

My mother was a wild child to say the least. When she fell pregnant at 21, she was living with our father in Mobile, Alabama and had no idea she was expecting twins until our birth. 

My mother did not receive timely prenatal care until she was asked by my grandparents to return to New Jersey so they could help with the baby, and she could go to college. In her final few months of pregnancy she took their advice and moved back.

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On July 18, 1980, my mother gave birth to not ONE girl, but TWO! I remember my mom saying she immediately thought, "Dear God, please take one away. Not two babies!"

I know she was only joking and just scared at that moment!

My mother had plenty of help raising my sister and I from her three sisters and her parents throughout our childhood.

My Mom and Dad welcomed a third child, my little brother Austin in 1992. We were 12 years old at the time. (long story) Although we wanted a sister not a brother, we were happy to welcome a sibling into our hectic lives.

Struggles with drug addiction

My mother unfortunately struggled with drug addiction since her early 20's. She was arrested multiple times serving different amounts of time in different jail facilities. She tried drug treatment programs, inpatient rehab, half-way housing, transitional housing, NA meetings and though she struggled with consistent sobriety, she was well known by family and friends as having a genuine heart.

She was very open about her struggles with addiction and recovery.

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My mother was not always in my life but she always tried. I understood early on about the disease of addiction and was able to forgive her for her absence in my early childhood years.

I thanked her for the past 7-8 years reminding her that she has been present for me both as a mother and a wonderful GiGi to her grandchildren.

My Mother's qualities

My mother taught me the importance of family, faith, hard work, kindness, forgiveness and love. She was a strong willed woman, stubborn and gentle with a great sense of humor.

She was caring, affectionate, forgiving and empathetic towards others, especially for those in need. She worked as a Licensed Practical Nurse for a few years and was a natural caregiver.

She loved her family and friends deeply and was known for her "gift of gab" and somehow being able to have complete strangers share their life story with her within their very first conversations. She truly had a compassionate heart.

Gratitude, closure and guardian angels

I have tremendous gratitude for that the past year I was able to spend time with her since she was diagnosed with Stage V Small Cell Lung Cancer. We were very open with one another- sharing our feelings, laughing, crying and arguing here and there. The conversations and closure we were able to have is a gift.

She was a true fighter and her incredible tenacity showed up in her strong will to live with this terrible disease.  She fought so hard she lived a whole year despite the original prognosis of 4-6 months with treatment.

She didn't want to die. She wanted to live but accepted death as a part of life.

In her final moments the peace and tranquility that came over my mom's face was breathtaking. She wanted to know her children were going to be ok. I reassured her multiple times as she began to slip away that it was ok to go.

Image: guardian angel. Quote: My mother believed in the angels, in heaven and the life we will be granted after death.

My mother believed in the angels, in heaven and the life we will be granted after death. Her beautiful soul is finally reunited with her mother whose death she struggled with over the past eight years and the loved ones who went before her.

As hard as it is accepting the fact that she is no longer here, I am at peace with her being my guardian angel. She promised to make her spirit present in my life and her legacy will live on through all of the lives she touched.

What people have said about Michelle's eulogy for her mother

Celebrant Josie Meuli says : "Michelle, I found your eulogy to your mother so uplifting. Your honesty would've been valued at the ceremony and other family siblings will accept that this was the most appropriate way to remember your mother. Wonderful words!

Susan says : Thank you. From what you write I'm sure your Mom would approve whole-heartedly of your decision to share your eulogy about her.

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Eulogy Examples For Mother

How do i write a eulogy for my mother.

I don’t know if there is a deeper sense of loss than that of your Mother. The person who raised you taught you right from wrong and brought you into this world. I want to say how sorry I am for the loss you are going through and that I hope this page of text will help, in some way, to get you through writing a lovely memorial speech for your mother.

Before you start to write, I want you to know that the fact you are preparing this eulogy means that you played a huge role in your mother’s life and that she would be proud of you for putting so much thought and effort into the speech. No matter how the speech goes, what you share or don’t share will not have any effect on the lasting memory of your mother. Now is just the time to share your most wonderful memories of the women that raised you. Share what you love most about her and your most cherished memories. The best thing I can do for you is to provide some eulogy examples which I found useful to hopefully bring you some inspiration at this tough time. I have also included some tips from professional eulogy writers below. I wish you and your family only the best. If I can help anymore, please do reach out. If you would like to share your eulogy with us, to help others in the future, I would be honoured. Thank you

Tribute Ideas to a Mother at Funeral

Eulogy for mother from son.

This lovely eulogy from a son her his mother is a lovely example of how to memorialise your mothers life

Can you hear me at the back? I have to ask because we were at the wedding last week and mum was sending smoke signals from the back of the room because she couldn’t hear me….. Ministers, family, friends and to the thousands of well-wishers who in the past few days have sent their messages of condolence and sympathies, thank you for coming to pay respect to my mother, Miriam. Those of us who knew her well knew that mom was never more than a deepin’ meaningful conversation or an emotional story away from having a good ol’ cry, so as her only son you’ll understand if I shed a few myself. As I speak to you I have to begin by thanking a few people, that’s what mom would have done so I’d like to say, I want to thank the friends and family who have rallied around and given us great strength in this dark time. Your organization and your willingness to pitch in is greatly appreciated by dad and me. Monsignorakhirin for your guidance and compassionate words I know. Mom was inordinately proud of your achievements and hopeful for what your future might bring. To the calibre family for the beautiful flowers here in the church today for deer, and Eve rain and the wonderful musicians for sharing the music with us, and to my stepbrothers and your families, my cousin’s, our neighbours, to my beautiful wife, Jennifer, for stepping in at a time of crisis and keeping the show on the road. Ma’am would have been so proud and grateful to see all the family come together and muck in so thank you all. the Marines we know many people across the length and breadth of this country have their own personal experience of and relationship with, Miriam and the many versions of her that there are. the mother, the wife, the sister, the aunt, the stepmother, the mother-in-law, the friend, the colleague, the journalist, the radio host, the social commentator, the activist and the architect. Each of these versions of Marian touched us because she had great empathy and her curiosity made all these selves very genuine. the woman I knew behind all these selves, was a shy lady who was as happy reading a book in silence, as she was sitting around the dinner table in the small areas of the morning with friends, laughing, joking, singing when she could remember the words, debating the politics of the day and generally sorting out the world’s problems, one dinner party at a time. The lady who liked being in bed during a storm, listening to the wind and rain crashing against the windows with the duvet pulled up to her chin, a classy lady with soul in the truest sense. she had a razor-sharp mind, she was patient, she was compassionate and she was great company at home. the matriarch was deeply protective of her family, mom was not a strict mother luckily for me but she would let me know when I was being foolish. her own mother, my granny, was a wonderful stoic religious woman who had sent mom back to school after her Leaving Cert because she thought mom was a bit too young and probably a bit too wild for a university. the result for us was that mom gave us great freedom, she respected good efforts, she rewarded independent thinking, she believed we should continually educate ourselves. she loved to debate things just for the sport of it. she believed that respect was always deserved and not just earned, and when it was lost there was room for forgiveness. nobody is always good and nobody is always bad. one of her favourite songs was a revolution by the Beatles, in it the line “you say you want a revolution, yeah we all want to change the world.” this is the challenge that she. accepted her activism and her charity were real because she lived the problems she tried to fix. her work with the Irish Hospice Foundation and the work of friends in Ireland were fueled by her experiences with my sister Sinead and the death of her own mother. she had the courage to step up to life’s challenges publicly and reflected on them privately. mom taught me that if you want a revolution, you can start one by challenging people, by finding commonalities, and by finding within people their humanity and their capacity to improve. stand up straight, she’d say, look him in the eye and go from there. mom lived many lifetimes in her life, her legacy to me is to travel to learn to live a life that’s full of love and her spirit will live on when the next generation of her family is born next month. Jenny and I will try to raise our child to have courage, curiosity and kindness, virtues that Marian espoused. thank you ma’am, we love you and we’ll miss you terribly

Eulogy Example for Mother from Daughter

The below eulogy is an example of an adult daughter saying goodbye to her mother.

hi, I’m on Harley’s daughter Nancy. Dear friends family and pastor, today we say goodbye to my mom but we’re also here to celebrate her life because that’s what she would want for all of us here that are saddened by her passing. She had a whole life, most of you here knew her as a friend but she was also an aunt. She was a grandmother. She was a wife, a daughter, a sister and a mom. She was also known around the house as chief. So the last few days they’ve been trying to think how in the world I could possibly put into a few minutes everything that I could be to someone like that, so bear with me. First, I think I should acknowledge that she gave me life, that’s a pretty big one and forever grateful to have such a great mom. She was my first teacher, she taught me all through her life, all through my life and she taught me right up till the end what humility, dignity, poise and bravery look like she also taught me the value of a good gift together and having friends and family around and I know she’s up in heaven right now looking down and it’s very happy and very excited and pleased with all of you and her friends and I know she’s thinking this is a good one we’re here to celebrate her life her, comic wit. My mom had a way of coming up with a one-liner just when you least expected it and it was the perfect comedy one-liner. It would come out of the left field and it would have you floored and only in her way of delivery could she do it. She was a consummate entertainer and singer. A few years ago I was having a birthday party for my husband, it was one of his milestone birthdays and I asked my mom ahead of the party if she would prepare a toast for Glen and give it at the party and she said, ‘oh no I could never, but what I will do is I will prepare a song I’ll make up new lyrics to a show too and I’ll jump and sing it’ I’m not sure what was easier, but she got up and she’s singing a song that she had written that was hilarious. It was a toast to my husband and everyone there was blown away and that was her way. In fact, she’s staying at our wedding she had secretly talked to the minister and to the keyboardist at our wedding and in the middle of the service she had it all arranged, she got up and sang sunrise sunset to her daughter and her new husband it was beautiful and pretty special. Obviously, to have a mom singing that song to you, I knew in fact it was such a time that although I thought the minister will leave in the middle of the service, he stayed and that job probably pulled it together to finish the ceremony. My mom and dad were from what is called the greatest generation, they taught us, kids, that he saved with a penny earned and that if something is broke you fixed it, you repaired it, you mended it, you took the time and you put it back together. For those of you who have been to my mother’s house you know that that’s the truth, they could have remodelled their home ten times but they repaired it themselves. They still have the O’Keefe and Merritt stove that they bought when that house was built in1953. I remember my mom telling me once that my dad was so smart because when they were gone in the house he researched furnaces and the one he picked is the one that was still working, 60 years later. It was in his heart and so yes at one point my husband and I remodelled our kitchen and we were tearing out cabinets and taking out appliances then yeah it was just way too much, it was their appliances, they were still good. Nancy and I were like his mother that they’re all the green kind of brain you know we were going for four days it didn’t even matter, we essentially remodelled the kitchen and she still to this day wonders what happened to those appliances, they were so good, so new isn’t always better! She told me you can tell what they have when people spend their money and how my mom felt about appliances, she felt about her friends and family. She didn’t just throw out the appliances, you didn’t throw out a family you didn’t throw out your friends. Just because things got a little rough, she stuck around. You know she’s been a member of this church for 60 years, she’s been a member of the Assistance League and the Women’s Club at the fringe clubs and gosh I don’t even know. That was my mom, she stuck by her friends and her family so in the last few days I’ve gotten lots of heartfelt messages and I want to read to you one of the passages someone sent me because it kind of helped me get through. It said ‘ tonight when you look up don’t see the stars, think of them as porchlights welcoming your mom safely home ‘, So I share that with you because apparently she had a gig that we didn’t know about and she’s probably up there right now singing and dancing and telling her jokes. In the past few days I was going through some of her things, putting some stuff together and I found a seven-page handwritten story of her life that she had written about ten years ago and it’s so Arlene and so my mom. There are sections in it there are entertaining and there are bits and pieces in it that our song lyrics were written throughout and it was I didn’t know about it. My family didn’t know about it. It was written ten years ago so we printed out a few copies at the reception afterwards. I want to close with the way she closed because I think she would like that, so I guess to sum it all up you all good friends, sisters, wonderful family, four children, six grandchildren and a husband with married for over 50 years, this fun line from the musical carnival. “it’s been a real nice clambake Emma, sure had a real good time” So thank you for coming, thank you for loving my mom she loved all of you so much. Her daily community, so thank you. I’m not doing a very good job at celebrating her life so if anybody would like to come up and do a remembrance I would welcome you, maybe something a little more lighthearted. Thank you.

Here is another eulogy to a mother who died of breast cancer

You know, my mother was very smart. very, very smart. But she did have trouble she had some trouble with technology. she really didn’t get answering machines. she really didn’t get portable phones. and I don’t know if you’ve ever gotten a message from my mother on the answering machine, but it’s like she’s talking into a well or something. she starts out ‘this is your mother, Frances.’ well good because I thought it was my other mother. ‘well we just called to see how you were and you could almost see her trying to crawl in there and ‘and we’ll call you back, we love you very much amen’ but you know she didn’t get that you have to push the button now to get the phone to go up so if you’d listen a while longer you’d hear daddy say, ‘did you talk to him, no they weren’t there well who are you talking to no they weren’t there I left a message but I think I said amen’ next message ‘this is your mother Francis, I think I said Amen I don’t know what in the world is wrong with me, well we love you very much, amen’ I just have to tell you that like everyone before her, I’m so happy you’re here and I’m so blessed. my mother and I tried to take real good care of each other over the years and when she died, I thought, ‘well I know she’ll be all right now, but I don’t know about me, who’s going to take care of me, cuz I know God’s taking care of her’ and it occurred to me yesterday, that she didn’t need me anymore, but she left behind people who do and she couldn’t take care of me anymore, but she left behind people who could. and so I know I’ll be alright, my friend Karen said, ‘you know death came for your mother several times and she ignored it’ and then finally God said no I’m serious and I’m going to take you right here now where you can’t get away thank you God for doing that, that way and that quick and in this place where she’s filled with people who love her so much. Thank you. Amen!

Eulogy for Mother Poems

Below are a list of poems suitable for a mothers eulogy

  • My Mother Kept A Garden
  • Child and Mother
  • A Sonnet for My Incomparable Mother
  • Goodbye Mom
  • Away by James Whitcomb Riley
  • Richer Than Gold by Strickland Gillilan
  • Your Mother is Always With You by Deborah R Culver
  • In Remembrance by Christine Currah
  • My Mother, My Friend by J. Allen Shaw
  • Only One Mother by George Cooper

We have curated a list of suitable funeral poems for mums to help give you some inspiration.

How to Write a Unique Eulogy for Your Mother

A story from a child is one that no other can replicate. There through good and bad, the clsoe bond shared will forever be with you and something you can use when penning a eulogy for your mother. We have written en extensive post to help you write your eulogy, but writing for your mother comes with a few extra steps that will ensure your message is a perfect goodbye.

1. Gather Thoughts and Memories

Make sure you speak with other fmaily members, friends & work colleagues to relive past memories. Not only will this help you determine the theme for your speech but it will ensure they feel a part of this too.

2. Theme your Mothers Eulogy

We dont advocate listing off items in chronological order like you are reading for ma list. Think of the type of women your mother was an weave this into your stories. Can you describe a time of adversity she overcame. Highlight the journey she went on, not just things that happen to everyone.

3. Slow Down and Really Remember Her

Rushing through the eulogy is a sure fire way to under deliver your speech. As well as practicing, just slow down, this gives you time to think and the audience a chance to catch up with you. A helpful tip is to write your speech as if your mother was in the audience and talk directly to her.

When it comes to paying tribute to your mother, only you will know the best way to immortalise her memory. We have put together an extensive list of funeral poems and popular funeral music for mothers, we hope this will help you plan the ceremony. If we are missing any information, please do contact us so we can ensure this resource is as helpful as possible.

how do i write a tribute speech to my mother

Usher unmuted: Fans decry censorship of icon’s BET Awards speech. Here’s what he said

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Usher’s confessions about the gratitude he feels for family, friends and fans fell victim to the mute button at the BET Awards on Sunday.

When the R&B icon received the BET Lifetime Achievement Award, he delivered a 13-minute speech that praised the people who helped him find and maintain success over the last 30 years. However, BET omitted large portions of the “Confessions” crooner’s acceptance speech, much to viewers’ and social media fans’ chagrin.

“Soooooo Usher’s entire speech is bleeped out,” one fan tweeted Sunday evening.

“It’s the silent acceptance speech for the viewers at home for me,” a second viewer tweeted . “Just go to commercial.”

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Usher, who received his award from executives Babyface and L.A Reid, kicked off his speech honoring those who had been in his corner, joking about the timing of his award (“I’m still running and gunning”) and getting vulnerable with the audience at the Peacock Theater in downtown Los Angeles about his beginnings.

“I’m gonna take my glasses off because I want you to see my eyes,” he told his peers in attendance. “I want you to understand it’s real.”

The Grammy-winning singer, who took over the Super Bowl LVIII halftime show , talked how his father’s absence motivated him to seriously pursue his career in music and praised the father-like figures he turned to during his ascent. Then came his first censoring.

“Who have spoken to me, who have been solid no matter how [expletive] may have been,” he said of those father figures. “I’m sorry, I’m cursing to let you know how I really feel.”

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Usher, full name Usher Raymond IV, continued his speech with a few more expletives, then BET kept the singer muted for several minutes during its broadcast, according to video shared on X (formerly Twitter.) Amid the silence and shots of attendees reacting to Usher’s speech, some words would break through seemingly at random. The silent broadcast inspired memes and annoyance on X.

“Usher is getting a Lifetime Achievement Award and we can’t even hear the speech?! BET is so trash!!!!,” reporter Mýa Melody said , also tweeting a gif of Katt Williams walking and holding a small blade in the movie “Friday After Next.”

In a statement Monday to The Times, a BET spokesperson attributed the silence to “an audio malfunction,” adding that portions of Usher’s speech “were inadvertently muted.”

“We extend our sincere apologies to Usher as we couldn’t be more grateful for his participation in Culture’s Biggest night,” the statement continued, before adding that fans could watch the uninterrupted speech “across BET Platforms” and via Monday’s encore showing of the BET Awards.

A representative for Usher did not immediately respond to The Times’ request for comment.

The 2024 BET Awards was a star-studded celebration of Black talent and culture that saw Taraji P. Henson return to host. Tyla, Victoria Monét, Kendrick Lamar and Regina King were among the night’s winners. Usher, in addition to his achievement award, won the ceremony’s male R&B/pop artist prize. His legacy also inspired an energetic tribute performance with Donald Glover, “Boyfriend” collaborator Keke Palmer , Teyana Taylor and more musicians performing his most popular hits.

how do i write a tribute speech to my mother

BET published Usher’s full speech Monday, in a YouTube video titled “Usher is Unfiltered & Motivated While Accepting His Lifetime Achievement Award.”

The new video, and viral recording from inside the ceremony, provides a more complete look at Usher’s moment. Here’s a full transcript of the Grammy winner’s unfiltered speech:

“Getting here has definitely not been easy, but it has been worth it. I have a lot of people that I want to thank but before I get into any of that — by the way I should caution you that I like to talk and I have a way with words. But what I will say is I didn’t write anything because I wanted this moment to be exactly what it was: present. In this moment, how I am feeling and the appreciation that I have for each and every person that had anything to do this moment tonight as well as the 30-plus-year career that I celebrate.

This life achievement award, I don’t know, man — is it too early for me to receive it because I’m still running and gunning? I still love this s— like I did when I was 8 years old.

I want to thank each and every one of the performers tonight who paid tribute and each and every person who had anything to do with the production, the wardrobe. I’ve seen everything, every detail, every moment, every moment and everything. We was going back to moments that some of y’all might not even know when I was dropping my pants. So those moments that become legacy are all about expression and just having fun and finding the connection and really the spark.

You know, when I first started I had a different idea about what I thought life was going to be. I started off as an artist in a group in Chattanooga, Tenn., my name was Cha Cha and I really was searching for some identity and I was doing that specifically because I was trying to make sense of this name that was given to me that was not — I’m gonna take my glasses off because I want you to see my eyes. I want you to understand it’s real.

I was trying to make sense of this name that a man gave me that didn’t stick around because he didn’t love me. Or at least that was my perception of it , because I had to live long enough in order to understand that you have to have a forgiving heart, in order to understand the true pitfalls and hardships of a Black man in America. And my father , he was a product of that. He made a lot of decisions, he made a lot of choices and one that probably hurt and helped me at the same time was to stay away. But that’s part of the reason why I saw this is the year of the father, where all the fathers gotta stand up for their sons, their daughters and be the man that they need to be for them.

They say success has a million fathers. Well I start with these guys right here. This is my village, these are the men who motivated me, who speak to me. Who have spoken to me, who have been solid no matter how f— up it may have been. I’m sorry, I’m cursing to let you know how I really feel. ‘Cause at one point, it got really thick, when motherf— weren’t f— with me. And I get it, I understand. Sometimes you gotta go through some s— to get to some.

how do i write a tribute speech to my mother

I’m gonna tell you, they solid. And it ain’t about a motherf— hit record. They solid, they gonna always gonna have my back and I’m gonna always have theirs. Now, somebody asked me a question about ego and this idea of having an ego. Could be so confident that you could come to L.A. Reid’s office at 12 or 13 years old and say , ‘You meeting the next superstar and I’m gonna take that space on the wall right there and you’re gonna put my picture up there.’ No, that wasn’t ego speaking. I re-branded that word that day.

I expressed goals out loud ... it makes sense and the reality is you have to express your goals outwardly no matter what people may see, no matter what they may feel, now matter how dark it may look, no matter how complicated it may be because that’s the only way it could ever become a reality. You have to see it first. You have to then move in action and decide, ‘This is what I’m gonna do. This is what I’m committed to.’ You’re gonna have a cast of people who are gonna be with you, you’re gonna have a cast of people who are gonna hate you.

So long as you stay connected to what you feel, what you’re committed to, something major will happen and God will show up. He always does. Now, I can proudly say I’m the b astion of Usher. Right? But I made something of it. I did that because my mother, she subbed in two ways. She was a mother and a father at the same time. This is the power of a Black woman in America, you know? So with everything that I’ve accomplished, I didn’t do it alone. I wanna thank the ones that are not here to be able to see this moment who I talked to, some of whom are fathers or were like fathers to me. Harry Belafonte is somebody who I always looked up to. Quincy Jones is somebody who always I looked up to and took me under his wing. Clarence Avant is another person I looked up to. Virgil Roberts is another person I looked up to and continued to push me and make certain that whatever I thought of I could absolutely achieve.

Evangelist Ernestine Carter , who I lost — and Kirk Franklin, he helped me usher her into this ascension and this place. And all of these wonderful things begin to happen. She was an Earth angel and she now is in heaven, making these moments happen. It is the hard work we put into this, but it is the belief in those who see something in us. A woman, a very important woman is at the very foundation to this — a man and a woman by the name of James Lackey and Nancy Lackey , who were at the foundation of who I am as a young, hopeful child who just wanted to do something and wanted to matter even though there wasn’t a dad to call, even though there was not nobody to pick up and say , ‘Yeah, you’re going to be all right. This is what you do. This is what is OK , what isn’t. You gonna like girls, you gonna go through s—. You gotta figure it out. But it led me to be the father that I am to my boys, Cinco and Naviyd , who are here today. And my little ones Sire and Sovereign who are home as well.

Thank you all for — why you lookin’ like that — you not happy today? OK? No. This one , he be in my DMs , you know , hitting [up] people and stuff. It’s all good. So I thank y’all for being patient with me. I forgive each and every person who had anything to say negative about me, because it only motivated me to be who I am. “Good Good” is more than just a song, I’m trying to turn a new leaf. We gotta be cool for the sake of the kids. I look at Swizz Beatz and his ex-wife and Alicia Keys and the fact that they’ve managed to pull things together. I’m trying , Tameka . First step, get it right.

So yeah, that’s a heavy one. But it’s all about y’all. It 100% all about my children and making certain that you understand your dreams can come true if you truly commit it — if you are truly committed, if you’re dedicated to something and you find passion and you stay committed to it. This could potentially be you. This could be your moment, not on this stage ‘cause I’m the only one that’s gonna have this one, but you could have a moment like this too.

I’m so happy for LeBron [ James ] and his son. This is the year of the father, man. To my team and each and every person that had to do with this moment that I’m having: Laffitte , Luke at my management company , Aakomon Jones. I said everybody on this stage, Johnta Austin who holds me down is my maverick, Chris Chambers who always has my back and always stays focused with me. Each and every person who has had a part in this moment, from the past going all the way back to AJ Alexander, that’s the guy who actually discovered me. And then, each and every friend who has encouraged and helped me in the moment, I celebrate this moment with you. This is not just my moment. This is our moment together.

My lovely wife, thank you so much for being my best friend. Thank you so much for supporting me and encouraging me. For each and every fan who has been a part of buying an album, or either coming to a show or either supporting me , I absolutely would not have been able to do this without you. L.A Reid , Babyface I just want to tell you, Face I love you. I thank you, man. I thank you so much for your encouragement as an artist, your encouragement as an executive, your encouragement as a part of the two, duo, that created LaFace records. Each and every person who is part of that organization set the tone in this time for what it is that it is to be entrepreneurial in music. I have you two to thank for that , and we want to thank y’all for that.

You gotta be willing to forgive, y’all. He who knows, knows sin , cast the first stone. We gotta be willing to forgive, we gotta be willing to be open. I’m telling you, you stand before a man who had to forgive a man who never showed up ever and look what I made with it. Look what I was able to usher in. That’s what’s real and that’s what makes us human. That’s what makes us men and women. I thank y’all, man.

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Losing a mother is an unparalleled, life-changing experience. A mother is the backbone of the family, the one who nurtures, loves, and provides guidance throughout our lives. As such, writing a beautiful eulogy for your mom is a daunting yet important task to undertake. It is an opportunity to appreciate her love, express your gratitude, and share the impact she had on her family and friends. We will guide you through crafting a heartfelt and loving eulogy that captures the essence of your mom while highlighting her impact on the lives of those she touched.

Take a moment to recall what made your mom stand out - her wit, kindness, strength, or her ability to brighten up any situation. Make a list of the qualities and memories you'd like to include in your eulogy. Remember, it’s okay to speak vulnerably about your feelings, as it reflects the depth of emotion a mother’s loss brings.

A eulogy for your mother should be rich in personal stories that illustrate her character and the impact she had on those around her. When crafting your speech, gather anecdotes from family and friends. This adds a layer of authenticity and depth to your tribute, allowing those in attendance to better connect with your stories.

After collecting your memories, stories, and emotions, it's essential to structure your eulogy in a cohesive manner. A chronological order of events or using a theme can help shape the overall narrative. Building a framework for your eulogy will make it easier to deliver and provide a clear picture for your audience of your mother's life journey.

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Your eulogy should be an honest and heartfelt reflection of your mother's life. It's important to keep your tone authentic and genuine, avoiding overly embellished descriptions or clichéd sentiments. Speak with sincerity, and your words will be cherished by all who knew your mother.

Express your gratitude for the time you had with your mother and the wisdom she imparted. Acknowledge every sacrifice she made and celebrate every milestone she achieved. This is an opportunity not only to mourn her passing but also to give thanks for her life and the gifts she bestowed upon those around her.

Ladies and gentlemen, family and friends, we gather here today in memory of a remarkable woman, my mother, who has left a permanent mark on the hearts of everyone she encountered. As we celebrate her legacy, I want to share with you the love, the laughter, and the light she brought into this world.

My mother was a tapestry of stories and wisdom, a woman whose laughter was contagious, whose strength was an inspiration, and whose love was unconditional. As we sit amidst the echoes of her absence, I find solace in the abundance of memories that dance in the chambers of my heart.

Mom was the pillar of our family, an unwavering force of nature. Her compassion knew no bounds, her dedication to us was immeasurable. She was our confidante, our cheerleader, our teacher, and above all, our friend. She had a remarkable ability to listen, to really hear what you were saying, and she offered advice that was both sage and heartfelt. A conversation with Mom was like a soothing balm for the soul—a treasured gift I already miss dearly.

There are endless stories I could share about my mother. Stories that would make you laugh until tears streamed down your face, stories that would exemplify the vastness of her generosity, and stories that would illustrate just how deeply she loved her life and the people in it.

One of my favorite memories of Mom was her in the kitchen, humming softly to the tune of an old song while she cooked. The kitchen, for her, was not just a place to prepare meals but a sanctuary where magic happened. She poured her love into every dish, and in doing so, she taught me that love, indeed, is the most precious ingredient of all. I can still recall the aroma of her famous pot roast wafting through the house, a sure sign that we were about to experience something more than just a meal; we were about to share in a moment of togetherness that nourished our souls as much as our bodies.

Mom's love for gardening was another aspect of her life that brought her immense joy. She would spend hours tending to her flowers, cultivating beauty with every touch and reminiscing with us about the origins of each plant. Her garden was a vibrant tapestry of colors and life—a reflection of the beauty she nurtured within each of us. To this day, I cannot see a rose or smell its delicate fragrance without feeling the strength of her presence and the tenderness of her care.

Yet, it wasn't just the big things that made Mom special; it was also the simple moments. It was the way she wrapped her arms around you when you needed comfort, how her words could light up the darkest room, or the way her smile seemed to promise that everything would be alright. These small yet powerful acts of love were her superpower, the hallmark of a life beautifully lived.

Her strength was more than just emotional; it was a testament to her resilience in the face of adversity. Mom battled her illness with the same grace and tenacity that she applied to every aspect of her life. Throughout her journey, she never lost her sense of humor, nor her ability to inspire hope in others. She faced each day with courage, encouraging us to do the same, no matter what challenges life threw our way.

In loving memory of my mother, I want to honor the lessons she taught us—the importance of kindness, the power of forgiveness, and the necessity of gratitude. She showed us by example that love is not just a feeling but an action, one we should extend to others freely and without expectation.

Today, as we remember the woman who gave us so much, let's hold tight to the memories that keep her spirit alive within us. Let's pass on her legacy of love and laughter, of hope and resilience. And let's cherish the countless moments—both big and small—that we were blessed to share with her.

To my dearest mother: thank you for your love, your sacrifices, and every little act of kindness that shaped our lives in profound ways. We may be saying goodbye to your physical presence, but you will forever live on in the stories we tell, the values we uphold, and the love we spread into the world. Your memory will be a guiding star for us, a reminder of the depth of your love and the strength of your spirit.

As we leave here today, let us not dwell on the sorrow of our loss but celebrate the gift that was her life. Mom, you have been a blessing to us all, and for that, we are eternally grateful. Rest in peace, knowing that you are loved beyond measure, and missed beyond words. Your light shines on in each of us, a beautiful tribute to the extraordinary woman you were.

We love you. We honor you. We miss you. And we carry you in our hearts, now and always.

Thank you all for being here today, for sharing in the love and the light of my mother's remarkable life.

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At Eulogy Companion, we focus on the co-creative process of developing a eulogy that truly resonates with the soul. In partnership with you, we meld your intimate anecdotes and sincere emotions with our professional expertise, shaping a homage that pays genuine tribute and fosters profound connections.

Our strategy is rooted in genuine conversation and a joint creative pursuit. Your personal reflections and discernments are the cornerstone of a story that captures the true impact of your spiritual counselor's legacy. This process goes beyond mere storytelling; it's a quest to enshrine the philosophies they imparted and the breadth of their influence.

In unison, our goal is to carve out a narrative that faithfully portrays your spiritual mentor – a eulogy that rises above ordinary commemorations, imbued with honor, personal affinity, and touching sentiment. Our combined efforts result in a eulogy that weaves a rich, intricate narrative of words, mirroring the profound regard and love your spiritual guide has ignited.

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A eulogy is a speech given during a funeral service that pays tribute to the deceased. It typically reflects on the life, character, and impact of the person who has passed away, and is meant to honor their memory while providing comfort to those in mourning.

Why is it important to write a beautiful eulogy for my mom?

Creating a heartfelt eulogy for your mom is a way to celebrate her life, acknowledge her influence on your own life, and to say goodbye. It provides an opportunity to share your memories, express your love and gratitude, and help others remember her at her best.

How long should a eulogy be?

A typical eulogy lasts between 5 to 10 minutes. However, it's essential to coordinate with funeral service planners as some services may have time restrictions. The content's significance is more important than the length.

Who should deliver the eulogy?

The eulogy can be delivered by family members, close friends, or anyone who had a significant relationship with the deceased. It's a personal choice based on who feels comfortable and willing to speak during such an emotional time.

What are some topics to cover in a eulogy for my mom?

The eulogy could cover topics such as your mom's personality traits, significant life events, lessons she taught you, her achievements, hobbies, and the impact she had on those around her.

How do I start writing my mom’s eulogy?

To begin writing your mom's eulogy, start by collecting your thoughts and memories of her. Reflect on her life, jot down significant moments, and consider what made her special to you and others.

Can I include humor in my mom's eulogy?

Yes, including humor can be a beautiful way to remember your mom if it reflects her personality. Sharing light-hearted memories or anecdotes can provide a moment of relief during the grieving process and honor her in a genuine way.

Is it okay to show emotion while delivering the eulogy?

It's perfectly natural to show emotion while delivering a eulogy. Your audience understands that this is a difficult moment and showing emotion can be a profound way to connect and grieve together.

How can I keep my composure while speaking?

To maintain composure, practice your speech multiple times, take deep breaths, and remember that it's okay to pause or ask someone to take over if you become overwhelmed.

Should I share personal stories in the eulogy?

Yes, sharing personal stories can make your tribute to your mom feel more authentic and heartfelt. Choose stories that capture her spirit and leave a lasting impression on the audience.

Can the eulogy be a collaborative effort?

Definitely. Collaborating with family members and friends can enrich the eulogy with diverse perspectives and shared memories, making it a more comprehensive tribute to your mom.

How do I close the eulogy?

Conclude the eulogy by thanking the audience for attending, expressing hope for the future, or offering a final farewell message that encapsulates your feelings and respect for your mom.

What tone should the eulogy have?

The tone of the eulogy should ideally be reflective, honoring, and imbued with love. While grief will naturally be present, the overall tone can celebrate your mom's life and the time you shared with her.

What should I avoid saying in a eulogy?

Avoid discussing controversial or sensitive topics that could upset guests. The focus should remain on celebrating your mom's life and supporting those who are grieving.

How can I personalize the eulogy for my mom?

Personalize the eulogy by sharing specific anecdotes, mentioning her favorite phrases, recounting life lessons she passed on, or including quotes or poems that she loved or that remind you of her.

Do I need to memorize the eulogy?

You don't need to memorize the eulogy. It's perfectly acceptable to read from notes or a printed copy, as this helps maintain the flow of speech and provides support if emotions run high.

How should I handle my nerves about speaking?

Prepare by practicing the eulogy multiple times, perhaps in front of a friend or family member. Focus on the purpose of the eulogy, which is to honor your mom, and try to speak from the heart.

Can I use quotes or poetry in the eulogy?

Incorporating quotes or poetry that reflects your mom's beliefs or outlook can add a meaningful touch to the eulogy. Just ensure they are appropriate and resonate with her spirit.

Is it okay to ask for feedback on my eulogy before the service?

Yes, getting feedback from family members or friends can help ensure your eulogy resonates well and is a fitting tribute. It may also provide reassurance and support.

What if I become too emotional to continue while delivering the eulogy?

If emotions become overwhelming, pause for a moment or ask a designated backup person to continue. Remember that this is a natural reaction and those present will understand.

How can I ensure that my mom's eulogy is memorable?

To create a memorable eulogy, focus on the aspects of your mom's life that were unique and extraordinary. Speak from the heart, give personal examples, and let the sincerity of your words shine through.

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How to Write a Tribute to Mom on Your Birthday

Updated 09/14/2022

Published 11/14/2021

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Learn how to write a tribute to your mother on your birthday with step-by-step instructions, examples, and info for posting or sharing a tribute.

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Your birthday is a special time when you may want to focus on thanking the various important people in your life for what they have done for you over the years. One such person may be your mother.

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What can you include in a tribute to your mom on your birthday, steps for writing a tribute to your mom on your birthday, examples of tributes to mom on your birthday, where can you post or recite a tribute to your mom.

An easy way to let Mom know you’re grateful for the role she has played in your life on your birthday is to write a tribute to her. However, you may not know where to start.

Don’t worry if so. This guide will cover how to write a tribute to your mom during this special day by breaking the process down into steps and providing examples of tributes to mothers.

What you choose to include in a tribute to your mom on your birthday will depend somewhat on the type of tribute you choose to write. For example, perhaps you want to write a standard letter, social media post, or tribute speech to Mom . If so, you might include some of the following:

  • A list of reasons you are grateful for your mom
  • Thank you quotes
  • A description of your favorite memories with your mother
  • Your favorite picture of you and your mother

However, you might decide you want your tribute to be more high-tech. For example, maybe you want to deliver a tribute to Mom on your birthday in the form of a slideshow or video. If so, you can add a song that reminds you of your mother.

There is no official way to write a tribute to your mom. Thus, you can modify the steps here to your liking. That said, the general process of writing a tribute to your mom on your birthday may include these steps:

Decide which type of tribute you want to write

The process of writing a tribute to anyone becomes much simpler when you begin by deciding which type of tribute you plan to write. This will help you decide which types of details and items to include.

For example, maybe you decide your tribute to Mom will be in the form of a speech. You might then search for popular thank you messages for Mom online to help you get inspiration. On the other hand, if you decide to create a video tribute to Mom, you will need to look for old video clips of her.

This is also a stage in the process when you might decide where you want to deliver or post your tribute. Further on, we’ll provide you with ideas to consider.

Gather your materials

You can now gather everything you need to have on hand before writing your tribute. These may include digital items, physical items, and even memories. Specific examples may be:

  • Photos and video clips
  • A list of mother-related quotes
  • Stationery or a nice card if you want to provide your mom with a physical tribute she can keep
  • Examples of other tributes to moms
  • In loving memory quotes, if you’re writing a tribute to a mom who has passed away

Get your materials together, and you’re all set to start writing.

Create an outline

Organizing your thoughts will ensure the process of writing a tribute to your mother for your birthday will be less overwhelming for you than it might otherwise feel. If you’re writing a letter or speech, break down the format into sections or paragraph ideas, along with a list of details or items you may include in those sections.

If you’re delivering your tribute as a video or slideshow, list out your ideas for how different sections may flow into one another and what those sections may consist of.

For example, maybe you want your video to consist of sections focusing on the different chapters of your life with your mother. You could thus write an outline explaining what those sections will be and what clips each section will include.

Write a draft

Now that you have an outline, you can begin writing the first draft of your tribute. During this stage in the process, it’s best not to focus too much on perfection. Your goal right now is simply to get your thoughts down on the page.

Check your draft

Once your draft is complete, you can check it for both technical errors and general weaknesses that you want to improve upon. Make a list of these problem areas. Once you have, it’s easier to go back and write a much stronger second draft.

Finalize your tribute

After writing your second draft, you should check it again to make sure it satisfies you. You may also want to show it to other loved ones if you’re still not completely happy with it and you’re not sure why. They may have insights to help you address any imperfections before finalizing your tribute.

Again, reading basic examples of tributes to moms can help you feel more comfortable writing your own.

Example tribute to a mom who died

I won’t lie. Every birthday since you passed has been a little bit painful. However, I’ve always known that I have the strength to overcome this pain. I know that because you gave me that strength. I can never thank you enough for that. I miss you and Iove you.”

Example tribute to a mom who’s still alive

I know it may be my birthday, but the only reason I am the person who I continue to grow into is because you have always been there to offer guidance, support, and most of all, love. So, I decided that it’s my special day, and I get to choose how to enjoy it. Right now, I want nothing more than to thank you and to let you know how much I love you.

Example tribute to a step-mom

“When you stepped into our lives all those years ago, I think you know I wasn’t ready to love my replacement mom. That changed fast. Through your love for me and the way you took up the mantle of helping raise my siblings and me, you became a genuine mother to all of us very quickly. Thank you for restoring what I thought was a broken family.

Choosing the best way to share a tribute to their mother on their birthday is as important to some as ensuring they write a fitting tribute. The following are some ideas to consider:

Social media

Mothers often appreciate it not only when their children express their love and gratitude, but also when their children show they are not embarrassed to do so publicly. Thus, you may post a tribute to your mom on your birthday on Facebook or a similar social media platform. This will let your mom know that you want others to be fully aware of just how special she is.

A favorite restaurant

It’s entirely acceptable to deliver a tribute to your mom on your birthday either at her home or at your own. However, in some cases, such as when delivering a tribute in the form of a speech, it may feel awkward and informal to recite a speech at one of your houses.

You may thus want to consider a more formal location. A popular example is a favorite restaurant or similar place where both you and your mother shared important memories. If you are giving a speech and don’t want to interrupt the meals of other customers when delivering your speech, think about whether renting out a private party room will be a better idea.

An old-fashioned approach is sometimes the best approach when sending Mom a tribute. If you live far from your mother and are thus unable to see her on your birthday, remember that your mom would undoubtedly love to receive a mailed tribute as a surprise.

A custom tribute website

If you want your tribute to your mother to remain preserved digitally for years to come, you could (if you have the necessary skills) create a tribute website specifically for her. This gives you the option of including multiple tributes.

For example, the homepage could feature a general letter to your mother. Another page could feature a tribute video you created. Yet another could feature some of your favorite pictures of mom.

Again, you’ll need to know how to create a website or hire someone to help you create it if you decide to go this route, but it is an option to strongly consider if you can’t decide on what specific type of tribute you want to write or create.

With multiple pages, your tribute can be more diverse than it might otherwise be. Plus, you can bet Mom will love regularly visiting her special website whenever she misses you for years to come.

Writing a Tribute to Mom on Your Birthday: Ideas to Consider

Hopefully, this guide has made the process of writing a tribute to your Mom on your birthday less intimidating. Just remember, this is a general guide with the main purpose of providing you with ideas and inspiration. You can adjust the steps and ideas here to ensure your tribute to a loving mother is as genuine as possible.

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